So last night I add this girl on facebook who looks familiar. This morning I wake up seeing she accepted my request. I'm a distance runner, so I see that she "liked" several photos of me running. But I also see she has a boyfriend, and within the last 24 hours they had posted a picture together aka first thing I see on her wall. So where do I remember her from? Turns out she messaged me, first believe it or not, on POF. I think I deleted my profile soon after, and I'm guessing she found this guy in the meantime. She's an athletic girl who also runs, definite HB7-8 material and lives a town over. I really don't want to steal someone's girl, but I had it happen to me this summer as my ex who I had talked about marrying left me for another guy. If this girl's about me, I owe it to myself to pursue her. Good idea?

Saw the boyfriend's profile, one of his favorite bands is Hinder=pussy

i wouldnt put too much faith in likes. if she shares a passion for running like you do then it might just be her way of looking through photos and liking what she thinks are good pictures. But all is fair in love and war so before you try anything, see if u can find out how serious the relationship is. if its not then u wont feel so bad when u try gaming her

As long as there is not a ring, they're not living together, or he can't kick my ass.... Fair Game!

whats my best approach? Like her photos back? Or try and message her on the chat?

Just send her message even when she is not on. Liking her pics back won't do crap.

and try not to come off as needy or as socially awkward otherwise itll just be a massive turn off

Remind her she emailed you first on POF. She might blush and feel a little guilty, but it might spark something with her.
talk to her about running if she likes to run. Then build rapport and you will be running in her head night and day.

girls love running partners.

I love running and a girl who runs is a plus in my book.

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Well I messaged her just a simple message, "You look familiar. Where do I know you from?" Wake up this morning with
"hey there " Then she says no clue, rambles on how she went to psu and goes to the local running stores(including the one who's club team I run for). Then tells me her jobs and that she's a waitress at this local bar/restaurant I occasionally go to and may have seen her there. (No mention of POF)

DV, I like your advice. That POF opener about the picture is gold. Working on a few girls right now with that in 2 short days after months of nothing. Do I message her back and mention POF? I'm thinking its a little too early to go out to that restaurant for drinks in hope of seeing her.

Nahh don't mention POF. She'd probably be too embarassed about it. I'd give her a couple of days before going out to that restraunt to see her. Let her know you might drop by someday to try out some of their food. She will probably anticipate you coming by everyday if she likes you. Which will build attraction everyday you don't show. Girls want things they can't have, so the more they can't have it the more they want it. Brush up on your game before you decide to come by. Ross Jefferies hypnotic words, Neil Strauss cube game and Mystery Method.

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Good deal. Replied to her and said that I was thinking of heading up there one of these days for happy hour. I'm new to these forums so what are these reads you suggest?

FUCK READING.....Youtube these Master PUA..there are a lot of PUA out there but they all use the basic Mystery Method, Neil Strauss, Ross Jefferies.

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The Game is a definite, as is Rules of the Game both by Neil Strauss.