Guys,

I have this girl that I have been talking to here on campus for the last couple weeks. We've been to a few parties and we've kissed multiple times. She likes me and calls me a charmer (she's seen me with other girls and I have lots of social proof around her). Anyways, I'm not trying to start a relationship with her, she's more of a friend than anything else (keep her around b/c she always gets me food from her dorm). But what pisses me off when I'm around her is this: when I'm around her, I ask her for something or for her to do something for me, and she usually refuses. It seems she's trying to preserve her ego b/c she feels I'm in control around her. I just want to know your advice on what to say/do in order to get her to comply with my hoops and requests more easily. I feel this will also help with other girls.

does she ask you for favors?

A fellow PUA posted this recently in the NLP section. click the link and read it. it may help you and have her "do" more things. Good luck!

this-is-nlpread-this-vt20372.html

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She asks me to get her alcohol (she's a little younger), usually through a text. Most of the time I say yes, but I do so after waiting a while to text back and always setting it around my schedule. Besides that she doesn't ask for favors, really.

Btw thanks Fasxination, that's great I'll use that link.