Basically I was with a girl in a bar all night last night, she was really into me. She asked me to come home with her as she left with her friends. We started to queue for a taxi outside the club and her friend (who I had talked to a little bit that night) said to both of us "I'm not sure if he should go home with you"

AGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really wanted to kill her, but I am quite proud of myself for not even rising to her or arguing and I just stayed super cool and said goodnight and left. Its her loss am I right guys!!??

Anyway I am very interested to hear if this has happened to you and how do I ensure this never happens again?

Peace
Leo

Find the chick and use some NLP to get her horny,go to Ross`s site and look for some seduction nlp patterns.
Or just use some excuse to take her home and fucking start making out with her

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When you realize that rejection doesn`t mean shit you`ll try to find a way how to kick your own ass for being an idiot.

And that is exactly the reason I always have a wingman.

But I'm curious what more experienced people have to say about this cuz it'd make some things a bit easier

its clear that her friend is the mother hen so if you want any chance of sleeping with this chic you'll have to win her friend over first. Try and show your fun side and as a wise man once said "show your different from everyone else"

Yeah I know man I think I did show my fun side its just that I think it was more of a trust thing or maybe even jealousy. Either way how do I respond to a comment like that??

i dont think theres much you can say. What you did was easily the better option than rising to the bate. If you can, try and arrange a meeting with the HB with just the two of you. what i normally do is say i need some new clothes and i need a female opinion on what to get. makes it seem that much more innocent and relaxed
if worse comes to worse see if you can get a wing to diatract them but (and i stress this) make sure they are NOT beta, otherwise it can only end badly for you
but since you said you only spoke to her for a bit, maybe you rubber her up the wrong way unintentionally while gaming her friends. you HAVE to diffuse the mother hen threat by building comfort with her first and then her friends

Too right man. I think there needs to be a whole topic devoted to getting rid of obstacles especially the whole mother hen thing which is the worst cuz they are so stuck up it is unreal. I agree with the wingman thing but I generally don't have one, especially one who knows the game.

''I understand, don't worry, I will take good care of her, she will be safe, *whisper in targets ear, your friend is going to be ok right?''*

,''what about you, will you be ok?''


you have to at least try to handle to cock block, she is worried about what people are going to say, her friend is dtf, but the friend knows this could be a bad thing if it gets out, you just have to make her look bad for objecting and get your target to cooperate and help you, there are sevearl ways to try to handle this, all the matters is you try to handle it, confrontation is probably the route you want to avoid with the bossy friend, if she hates you, it will be hard for you to get the girl

היא הנאה בחייך.

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Are you guys crazy or what?? You must adress your obstacle man! Here's one of the problem you did during the night.. you talked only to her.. you shoud'v befriended the obstacles.. but anyway when she told you that.. you could've still saved yourself a good fuck for the night. Say something.. you never know. 60 year challenge method in this particular situation.. you could'v just said nothing and just keep eye contact with your target. Render things awkward.. just stare at her. That's how you handle shit-tests.. that was a shit-test my friend.. to see if you have the balls to respond. If she really liked you and you would'v render things awkward by not responding and keeping eye contact.. she would'v felt the sexual tension right off the bat and she would surely say to her friend like fuck off. It's good though, you tried something else.. but next time.. make sure to make some action. Don't take the easy road which is to walk away!

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3. options
-get her number next time
- get a wing man or woman and be more prepared next time
-wait to see if she defends u

Dunno about you guys, but I always say to the lass "You don't always let her boss you around this way do you? Is she the leader of your group?"

That always works.

i would have just said, "I'll make you breakfast in the morning" and then smile, then point to yourself and say, "I'm a top chef."

criticism: after the girl agreed to take you home, you should have said, "Okay, is your roomate cool with it? I'm going to go ask her."

You: Your room mate invited me over to your house tonight, I just wanted to make sure you were cool with me sleeping over."



^ always works. they just look at me and say, "if she consents i don't care." Make everything seem like its totally cool and that she shouldn't be bothered by it.

Yeah, i definitely think you should have done something on the spot, not kinda let it off. Waiting for the girls response would've been a great start, besides, whose the mother hen to judge her? Still, it's at least a good place to pick up the next date or something, ask her out so you don't have to deal with the hen again (considering you have the nr). Brary's option is a good one too, ought to try that out sometime.