Im really having some trouble with this girl, I am way too emotionally invested probly but let me catch u up.

So I met this girl at a party, we danced, it was mainly like me leading her places, we didn't talk that much, basically just like a little talking, and then I kissed her, and it was awsome.

So fast forward 2 weeks later, we've been talking a little, not that much, not too good gaming either on my part, but I asked her to hang out, and she said she would. She didn't show up, and she said it was cause of logistics, which it actually was I found out later.

The next week Im hanging out with my 2 buddies and her and her friends, and she keeps talking to her friends, I know she still liked me cause she kept coming over to talk to me, but I was being a FUCKING PUSSY (next time I am thinking about not doing kino, I am forcing myself to) and I did very little kino. I was dominant, alpha, and energetic, but that was it. There was a little conversation, a little teasing, but still no real comfort stuff. So she leaves to hang out with this chick's friend, and then comes back, says she has to go, we hug, and she says "it was nice seeing you"

I am fucking my brains over whether I should still try, or if i should just give up on this. I don't have too many options, and that might make me come across as needy. Her attraction to me is clearly not where it was the time we met and kissed, but I still feel like there is something there. At the same time, is she trying to tell me to not try anymore?

If I keep trying (ideal choice, but I really want ur guys' opinions) i'm going to need to qualify her to get a deeper connection, and I'm not really too good at that, so can someone please tell me the best way to qualify in addition to answering whether I should still pursue this girl or not?

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Sttartter

it doesn't look like she's got no interest, but two weeks for a first date is too much in IMHO (unless either is busy).

what was her reaction/you guys txted after it didn't work. did you try to get another date ?

regardless,

you could just get really confident, give he a call and say :

"Hi, how are you ? (answer) ... I think you're really good company and I want you to come with me to X at Z date at Y Hours. what do you say ?"

if you're really confident and she's into you you'll get a date for that day or another. if she's making up excuses. move on, NEXT!