just read all of this ...your really progessing slowly but your going somewhere with this i think...keep it up ill be following this for sure im pretty much on the same level your on

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make her laugh and you can make her do anything

Your right Im progressing slowly, too slowly really. I need to get out there more.

Today was hot in uk so went town nd park with few mates. At park, it was full of hotties, so i was like right lets go get some, its funny as soon as i suggest going upto some girls, everyone suddenly wants a starbucks, is too tired, wants to go home or w.e

Its funny at one point, someone said "what world do you live in where you can just go upto girls during the day" anyway, im being abit of a wimp and dont end up approaching anyone there. The funny thing is, these 2 guys walked in just as I wimped (im always the one whos gotta lead and do the talking, none of my mates will, dont understand how they can accept "im too scared to do this" and not even try) these 2 guys had what I call "ridiclious confidence" they just went straight upto the largest group, with the hottest girls and biggest guys, and i could tell from a distance that they were completely confident, that is what I want.

its not all bad, I did approach after all, but it was a crappy opinion opener which led nowhere, still approach is an approach. gotta find a way to get that confidence

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Ok, so today went out, first time in a while ive gone out in daygame just to approach.
TBH im not too sure why i stopped, i was making some good progress, i guess sometimes we just get side tracked..

Anyway, wanted to go out and approach today and just start going for it again. Pick up from where i left off.. if only it were that easy..
Ive defo noticed approaching is harder when you havnt practised it in a while, today had intention of using opinion opener, missed first few opportunities. there wasnt a great deal of sets there, but oh well. In the end, i just used a situational opener on an older couple. I wanted to get at least one approach of any kind done today!

So anwyay, ive got a gameplan. Its 52 days until im old enough to go clubbing, but i still want to improve and get at least one number before then, during daygame.

So, my plan is, to approach 100 times in the next 52 days, and get one number.
This does not include parties as theyre much easier. im not counting today.
It averages out at about 2 approaches a day, or 14 a week. However some days due to being at college etc i wont be able to, which means ill make up for it by doing more at weekends.

14 a week.

not only this, but im gunna start being more social in general, making as much convorsation as possible. Not just with HB's. but with everyone. Lets connect!

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Ok, just got in, been doing work all day but wanted to get out for few hours and do an approach

met a mate and we were just pissing around having a laugh, when near us 2 girls were inside shop near us, im like gotta be a sign from the gods of pussy. lol joke, but i do need to approach these. We are talking about some crazy shit, for some reason hes asking me about transexuals and my opinion on them, so im like lets just straight up use that as an opener.

So i do, i walk over confidently, and say the opener. First of all they just look shocked, but they laugh. using a wierd scenario opener like this is good i guess cos its easy just not take it seriously and have a laugh with it. Anyway, we have a laugh with them, find out there uni students. In future i need to push it even further, get there names and keep chatting to them. I guess this is where stories would be useful

1 down, 99 to go!

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Ok, it would be great to approach all the time whenever i see a hot girl, so thats what im going to start doing.

Every time i see a hot girl, i must approach. However, i know in some cases (if shes around alotta other people etc) i can be abit of a pus about approaching, so if i really cant approach with an opinion opener, then ill just use a situational one.

then when i can approach with opinion openers to every hot girl i see, regardless of my situation, ill start trying to go direct with every girl..

wanna get the "approach reaction" i see a hot girl, i instantly move towards to approach, only way im gunna make the 100 approaches

and you know, maybe get laid

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ahh so im going into town today, and i see a girl walking my way, so im like right lets do this.

So, as she gets closer, i noticed shes looking at me, wait a minute, i know her

great, hi ex gf. Almost my 2nd approach. I can see why people get depressed when they see thier ex's, its another way to compare yourself with how you used to be.

anyway, im feeling abit down, but fuck it, action is the way forward. over this weekend, im aiming to do 3 approaches a day. 2 can be situational (do you know where xyz is?) and on an opinion opener.

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i disagree. i actually gamed a girl with a boyfriend yesterday. if a girl says that its a possible shit test to dhv herself. i usually say well he'll keep u company while im away or well hope he hasnt ruined all guys for u. the last one can be a tongue twister if ur nervous. i like the first anyways. look up thesocialengineer he picks up multiple girls with boyfriends. good luck. come out to sacramento ill wing u

oh n most important part afterwards dont say a word bout it. if u meantion it it seems as if ur thinking bout it which is beta.

cheers dabadwolf thats solid advice, after reading a few things ive realized alot of girls will cheat, so next time it happens, i will just ignore it and carry on as normal

ok, went into town today. Still not opening all sets, but opened a good number, only with situational though, still, for now thats ok.

i was with a mate who ran into 2 girls he knows, 1 was ugly and the other was HB6 best, but i vibed anyway flirting abit, and jumped at the opportunity of meeting a new girl, which is good, im getting my drive back lol

tommorow ive gotta lot of work to do, but my plan is just to go town on my own, and go for an opinion opener

last night i was thinking about 2 summers ago when i was really going for this and getting good results (Which i feel ive lost in last year or so) and i realized the frame i had back then which allowed me to approach and enjoy doing so, so much more. it was just "im a social fun guy just having fun" thats what i thought when i approached, im just a fun guy being social, no big deal, defo think getting back to that

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Yo, have had a good day!

all week ive been feeling really good, happy, full of energy. Its amazing the power of positive thinking and setting a frame for yourself (I am a social fun guy). All week ive just been getting on better with people and having more fun, and its showing in my approaches!

today in town with a mate, see a 2 set, one im not into other is hot.

so i approach with a mumbled opinion opener i made up on the spot, bit shaky for first few seconds, but as soon as i was settled in, much better, i spoke and got into a good convo with them, and for first time in a while DIDNT EJECT FIRST

that, my good amigos, is an achievement for me.


im pushing myself forward.

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Hey mate, im kinda new to the whole pua and was reading your posts and really liked them and learn't a few thing and thought i would give you a tip that really helped me out

Not all HB's are 100% perfect, they all have something wrong this thing, eg:
-Slightly bigger nose
-Blemish on their face
-Mole
-Funny voice
You get the picture, just find their flaw and focus on it.

I find focusing on their flaw make them alot easier to talk to.

Hope this helps with ya game

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Can only pull when drunk but hoping to change this

cheers kiwibro, will defo remember that in future, glad you can learn something from this forum its not just me babbling on lol

went to a party last night, defo noticed I enjoyed it MYSELF more, as of lately ive been in a much better attitude and state, which reflected in my interactions with people, i met more people and had more interesting convo's, felt like 2 summers ago all again.

anyway, 2 Hb's there, was chatting with both of them. Again one thing i would improve is going for it more, escalating and pushing the interaction to romantic ASAP, so i dont miss the opportunity. So it got to nearing the end of the party and i though right lets go find someone and get a number at least, so i go sit with one HB, trying to get into a good convo, but her mate keeps trying to talk to me, shes sitting inbetween us. I consider just straight up asking the girl to dance/for number infront of whole table, when the other HB comes to find me, im thinking ok its on surely

so we start chatting, she casually drops in she has a boyf, whos at the party, sitting at this table. Great. by this time the other Hb has lost interest. So the boys are waiting to go so i call it a night

i was really beating myself up about not going for it more with the other HB, when later i learned something, both of the Hb's had boyfs who were at the party, so no matter how good i was doing, it was gunna be a longshot!

lesson: Sometimes, it just aint your fault, as long as you try, your money!

my aim is to approach 1 girl directly, over the weekend, during the day. I can do this!

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ok, today after reviewing some material, it got me thinking and ive realized something. I have girls attracted to me, all the time. I dont mean to sound like some cocky penis, i dont mean i have women throwing themselves at me (or i wouldnt be at this forum lol)

what i mean is that looking back, there has been multiple times i could have escalated and pushed it towards romantic, but did not. Ive built social skills and confidence and i just like to have a laugh naturally, so i think this along with a few other things from PU ive learnt gives me automatic attraction.

then i go and ruin it by either a) trying to build more attraction b)not just making the dam move, being to worried about "pick up techniques".
I wouldnt have built the confidence and social skills i have now without pick up, but now i need to switch my focus, from attracting girls to just closing man!

so from now on, whenever im in a convorsation with a hot girl, not gunna worry about any attraction, except maybe teasing them abit and having fun, and just on qualifying and kino'ing

i also still need to do my 1 direct approach! been a busy weekend but tomoro!

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Ok, big things started happening.

Ive realized what ive lost since 2 summers ago..MY GAME. seems obvious

but, just reading through mystery method (revelation, newest version) I realized ive just straight up been neglecting my game. Ive been so busy trying to come up with "the attitude to get women" or whatever ive forgotten how simple it is. You convey certain things to her, she likes you, qualify,connect, escalate.

This aint just another fake lightbulb moment. I tested it at my college, talking to HB in my class, used old school mystery method, had her convincing me i should come visit her at work..

it feels so good, im getting the belief back I really can have a good chance of getting with any girl i want, not in 10 years, not when im rich, but right now, using good game.

went to a party last night, intended on running game, but there was a lack of HB's, so i just got shitfaced. why i do it to myself i do not know.

anyway, until tommorow my friends

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Ok, been abit lazy lately until last night, went to mates party. Had hired out a bar, alot of new people to meet as I was a plus one, so that was cool. So me and my mate are basically just having fun talking to girls, sometimes doing situational openers sometimes just hi howa you, and it was all good. I was throwing DHV's around like crazy, i just thought hey instead of getting all hung up on DHV being like oh no i hope she doesnt think im bragging/lying, ill just go with the flow and use as many as possible. It worked. Talking to hosts sister, she was few years older but was defo interested, had at least 2/3 girls who were defo interested, but then started talking to this pretty blonde at the bar. I think she must have seen me talking to other girls cos she seemed interested straight away, I ramped it up by qualifying and throwing a few DHV's in, letting her know i think shes cool then challenging her after, was best game ive run in a while!

anyway, Kclosed her, went well, only sticking point was trying to get her to come back with me. I just kept making it clear i thought girls who were ok with sex were really cool, and how she should never be ashamed of her sexuality. maybe it was a bit see through, the booze was starting to kick in at this point lol

after this me nd mate went to club (first time for me) WOW

how much harder it is to open girls in a club! the bitch shield defo exists, cos i was getting shielded to death. I didnt really care, id already got on a girl and was just seeing what a big club was like, approached 5-6 sets in about half hour, but just was not working, i think its because we were feeling a little out of place due to first time, and that showed. Also, sure the girls there were mainly older, but we were letting it intimidate us too much, which also didnt help. Other than that, shoulda either gone indirect, and been convincing, or gone super unashamedly direct, instead just using chody ways of opening lol

looking forward to plently more nights like this too come!

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