We have all this information about how to become an Alpha Male and get whatever woman you want, but we are lacking when it comes to ending relationships like a real man.

I ended a relationship earlier today, but I didn't handle it as well as I could have. I know breakups are rocky by nature, but I feel like the manner in which you do it can greatly affect the way you leave someone. After all, we say that we want to leave the woman better off than when we had met her, right?

What are some guidelines on ending the relationship as an assertive, respectful, considerate, Alpha Male?

Most important on breaking up i think is doing it in person.
Face to face.

You must know, she will be hurt.
Most people try to soften the pain by making up excuses or lie about the reason (if the reasons for breaking up aren't obvious, like cheating,...)

The selfrespected person, would tell her the truth (in my opinion) This will make her more hurt and she'll start to defend herself, but in the end she knows what she did wrong, so she can work on it when she has a new relationship.

Last 20 women or so that I slept with I've simply stopped calling them out of the blue. Sooner or later they get the message. Pretty alpha if you ask me.

Go straight to the point and don't text it.
That will do.

I don't think this is alpha, more like a jerk and unconsiderate behavior.
Alpha doesn't mean to forget that people have feelings, or to have and displaying your own feelings.
On the contrary.

Besides, I think the OP was speaking of how to break up a LTR and not just a casual one.

body slam...


or the people's elbow

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

When I broke up with my last gf I sat her down and began with something like this:

Listen, we've had a good run together and I had a great time while we were together. But I've just come to realize your not the girl for me. So I feel like it would be best if we stopped seeing each other. Your a cool chick and I'm sure you'll find someone for you.

Mix it up, add it some stuff but keep a similar frame of mind. As long as you are in control of it, calm, and confident. She will melt. Mine even started to tell me that we didn't need to breakup and could still hang out and have sex. Once your have her dangling by the string, cut her off. Get her out of your life and do not, I repeat DO NOT initiate or in some cases even continue interaction. Just ignore her and keep livin the life.

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i only like the first comment. why lie? you don't need an excuse to break up with her. be a man and tell her how it is, even if the truth hurts... down the road its better for her and she'll appreciate you for that.

LOL... stone cold stunner

last time i broke up i went home .. faced my emotions .. fucked cried .. start jerking off on some porn..

couldn't fucking orgasm.. decided that it's stupid anyway and woman are dumb... made the descision that i could get a better woman which is true...

2 weeks later i jizzed on some girls lower back...

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Dont know how helpful this is but i had a fuck buddy and i just told her ''i'm giving it a go with this other girl so i probs wont be ''dtf'' for a while '' and then i treated her like the mate that she is/was/had been...

i'm a big believer in treating women the way you expect them to expect you to treat them. in other words act like its cool and you expect her to understand (you are after all being reasonable and not a dick because you respect her) she'll either have to accept it or fuck off.

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look her in the eye and say whatever it is that's honest. not calling/texting is a bit pussy isn't it? not really alpha.

If he's only sleeping with them and not in a realtionship with them?why then has he have to break up with them and be mr feelings??

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“The only reason to wait a month for sex is if she's 17 years, 11 months old.”-Barney Stinson

Actually, this is one of the times where I agree with Richard. Having "the talk" is something I avoid like the plague. If a girl pisses me off, then I just stop talking to her (a "hard next"). If a girl bores me, then I just see her less often.

I cut the toxic people out of my life and prioritize the people who make my life better. It's just that simple. There's really just no need for drama.

-Wolf

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What you say is indeed true, I admit it: get rid of the toxic people in your life with simplicity and be natural.

On the other hand, as I said in my original post, I think the OP is referring to a LTR breakup. If you've been boyfriend and girlfriend for, say, one year, you don't simply stop calling her out of the blue.

You may cut the communications and see her less often; she'll get the gist eventually, but I guess you'll have to talk about it. Not being explicit can keep her bound emotionally to you for no reason for longer than needed.

Relentlessly cut things as soon as they get toxic, I agree; but be direct.

So what is your career? A Screenwriter?

So many cheesy lines 1 after another!!