Thank you man! I was thinking about either texting her later on today or tomorrow and following Khuram's advice (Nickname, Q, statement).

I am confused about when to text her, for like Khuram said, it would be wise to neutralize the situation so that she doesn't walk around thinking she has higher value than me.


On the other hand, texting her tomorrow instead may slow down any attraction that I built up on Friday.

I am so confused (and I am starting to fall in love with her unfortunately), but you know what, by thursday evening I will have my answer, and if she bails on me again, I am going cold turkey on her ass. !!!!!

Thank you man! I was thinking about either texting her later on today or tomorrow and following Khuram's advice (Nickname, Q, statement).

I am confused about when to text her, for like Khuram said, it would be wise to neutralize the situation so that she doesn't walk around thinking she has higher value than me.


On the other hand, texting her tomorrow instead may slow down any attraction that I built up on Friday.

I am so confused (and I am starting to fall in love with her unfortunately), but you know what, by thursday evening I will have my answer, and if she bails on me again, I am going cold turkey on her ass. !!!!!

So I thought about texting the following message tomorrow:

"Hey there computer geek!! haha How are your computer issues treating you at work? BTW, I saw an almost naked guy at the library yesterday." lol



What do you guys think?

"hey there, computer geek! How are your computer issues treating you at work? You wouldn't believe what i saw in the library yesterday.."
no haha (when it makes you look like that you are saying it because you are afraid of getting angry)
you can add lol in the end if you want

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Cool, do you think the "freeze out" has helped me in any way, shape or form? It does make a lot of sense from a psychological stand point!!


All PUAs that I have met online and offline are so cool about helping out. Thanks again

yeah that defintaely helped you. It helped to restore your alpha image.
Personally i dont freeze out more than a day, and usually get the girl after freezing her out for a day. Who wants to remember a girl for 7 days and specially a girl who isnt behaving good? Fuck, i would like to fuck serven other galz with a fresh mind in those 7 days, now if she comes, she comes and if not who cares? I got 7 other girls

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Thanks Khuram! I will let you know how it goes.

Cheers mate!!

cheers!

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Houston we have contact!!! She texted me first:

Her: "what's the latest and greatest?"
Me: Oh you wouldn't believe what I saw in the library yesterday: a nearly naked guy in short shorts. So how are your computer issues treating you at work?"
Her: "Well he is called bla bla bla and known for bla bla bla"
Me: He reminds me of Crocodile Dundee. lol
Her: Probably because of his tan.
Me: Yup. How was your day?
Her: Good, I am tired.
Me: I think I may snooze early tonight.
Her: Do it!
Me: But it is so fun staying up!!!!
Her: No it is not... I am falling asleep now!
Me: You are going to bed with the chickens!! )


So how did I do? lol

And wow, freeze outs do actually work!!! Is this an IOI that she initiated contact?

yeah that was an ioi. But in the initial text game you should have avoided questions and behaved a bit distracted. Lets see how we could improve this chat
Her: "what's the latest and greatest?"
Me: Oh you wouldn't believe what I
saw in the library yesterday: a nearly
naked guy in short shorts. So how are
your computer issues treating you at
work?"(there was no need for the question at the end. Initially focus on statements,"i hope your computer issues are treating you well")
Her: "Well he is called bla bla bla and
known for bla bla bla"
Me: He reminds me of Crocodile
Dundee. lol
Her: Probably because of his tan.
Me: Yup. How was your day?(again no need for the question. Instead of asking this you could have striked up an interesting topic)
Her: Good, I am tired.
Me: I think I may snooze early tonight.(you are throwing a wrong iod. And indirectly telling her that you are gonna end the chat shortly) Her: Do it!(she gives an iod back) Me: But it is so fun staying up!!!(you are giving an ioi (telling her you may stay with her) for an iod and that is wrong, it excludes a bit neediness.)!
Her: No it is not... I am falling asleep
now!(she rejects your ioi and gives an iod again)
Me: You are going to bed with the
chickens!! )(there was no need to send this text. After a girl says bye or anything hinting that, its better not to reply and wait for them to text you again)

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Thanks Khuram! Hopefully my text game didn't ruin it too much for me. lol

yeah you didnt make any major mistake. Its kool

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I dunno man you can try I have banged girls and had a tough time to get them to call me back. So I dont think it matters u kissed her. at least to her.

Women are alot colder then they let on.

And when ever a lady asks you to breakfast it means they want to stay over did you ask her to stay over after she mentioned breakfast????????????

she gave youa big hint bro she was prob upset you didnt take the hint. and thinks your not experienced enough for her.


I would go right into sexual innuendos. and go from there talk about sex stuff or directly sex with her is better. gauge her reaction.

plus you may save face from that huge let down you gave her.

future advice if a women asks about breakfast ask her to stay over.

So she IS going out of town this weekend (according to her FB status). So I won't be asking her out this weekend!



Will not seeing her for over a week set me back at all? (i.e., will any attraction or desire that she has for me disappear due to the us not being able to see each other for over a week?)