| Alright so ive been talking to this HB9 for a little bit now. I met her back last February and we really hit it off then and things were great for a bit. She's a gorgeous girl and has guys going after her all the time, it's pretty ridiculous actually how much attention she gets, but few rarely ever succeed, she's always been that "unobtainable one" that everyone tries to go for.
So last year, first attempt at us talking. (i'll try to keep this part short cuz its not the current situation) basically she thinks im amazing and the most attractive guy shes met, she really really liked me according to her and her friends. I was majorly AFC though so naturally she got bored and that went downhill lol gave me the "not ready for a relationship" line. Never F-closed, got close but we always got interupted.
A couple months go by, i cut off contact with her, discovered this forum and The Game, and have been putting what ive learnd into use. Ive been with many other girls and have had an official gf since then, so this isnt really a oneitis or anything. she would occasionally text me when she was going through a bad time and needed someone to talk to but i didnt make any efforts to contact her besides that. Then, me and my gf at the time break up and HB9 immediately texts me as soon as its on facebook that im single.
Now the more current situation: Its all small talk for a bit until about two weeks ago when i actually decide to start using PU techniques on her to see what works and what doesnt. Im getting great responses, better than anything i got when we were actually "talking". Weve hung out once and i ran through the cube and everything and it was great, she was giving clear IOIs and I could tell I had her again (my ex even happened to show up at the place we were at and HB9 kept catching her staring over at us really hitting it off so that was good for both those situations lol hey gotta keep my options open right?) it was all fun and games for me until about 5 days ago she tells me that she misses me and when we were "talking". Attraction phase is where i excel, mid-game...not so much lol. I kinda told her im not 100% sure about any relationships right now but we could keep talking and find out where it goes. I could tell that kinda threw her off because shes used to getting any guy she wants and wasnt expecting me to not just jump for her.
Since then she has been texting me non stop, She's always the first to text me and we talk for almost the entire day (i use lots of text game techniques from here and purposely wait awhile before texting back sometimes, you know stuff like that, been working great) and if i dont text back after a couple hours she'll text me again lol Its not really annoying me or anything ive just found it interesting, and i think i kinda like her so i guess i dont mind.
So the part where i mightve screwed up... sunday we get to talking about her and she mentions shes actually been a little sad because shes been feeling lonely lately and its been on her mind alot. I asked her what she meant and she said "idk i guess its just that time where im starting to want a boyfriend now..." (i negged her a bit on how the same girl who has never wanted to settle down just told me she wanted a bf but it was a playful neg) i still didnt make myself fully available to her I just stated that next time shes feeling lonely to hit me up and hopefully i could keep her company (said it differently of course) she said she would love that. The next day, she does her usual thing where she texts me about 12ish because i havent texted her yet. a bit into the conversation i bring up how it is that a girl who has guys chasing her all the time could possibly be feeling lonely. she replies:
"because the only guys that want anything to do with me are guys that just want sex"
(now at this point i remembered that her friends have all told me before that she gets screwed over by guys alot and is mainly just used as a hookup so i kinda know that shes not just saying this for attention, she actually believes this to some extent) I say something like:
"thats not true i can think of several guys who see alot more in you than that..."
HB9:"Arcana, no guy would stay with me if i wouldnt be willing to have sex..."
Now I dont know what on God's green earth possessed me to say this, i think i was just wrapped up in the moment and let my feelings get in the way, but i replied with:
"HB9, your texting a guy right now who would."
I KNOW I KNOW, total AFC thing to say, bad move, i recognized that literally right after i sent it. thats why im still rAFC lol she had no idea what to say after that but she absolutely loved it and said that she was so happy that i said that and all that stuff.
Since then things have been about the same, she stills wants to talk all the time and we keep trying to schedule to see each other but were both really busy (her mom has multiple sclerosis and is going downhill fast so she has to take care of her alot) so were just planning for friday night and hope it doesnt fall through.
Im worried that now that ive said that she might start to lose interest because now she has the idea she has me or that she just might friend zone me, so im thinking i might just ignore her for a day or something and play it off like i was busy to keep her interested? i really dont know what to do now, like i said attraction phase and opening is my thing, so any advice? thanks in advance, its greatly appreciated.[/list]
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