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PostPosted: Fri Oct 07, 2011 12:33 am 
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I'm not sure. She always comes cuddling up to me and asking me if I love her? Should I tell her yes or should I dodge the answer? I'm hesitant to say yes because when people get something that hey want they immediately value it lower right?

So even though we 've been going out for 9 months, I don't like to tell her straight that I love her, rather I play the guessing game. Is this good practice or should I just tell her straight that I love her?


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Tell her straight up. All this value shit is ridiculous. Don't believe the hype. She will value your love far more if she has it than if she doesn't. If you don't love her there is nothing to value.

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If you are still looking at this girl as "practice" after being in a relationship for nine months, you have problems far more serious and deep-seated than wondering whether you should say "I love you" or not.

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Tell her straight up. All this value shit is ridiculous. Don't believe the hype. She will value your love far more if she has it than if she doesn't. If you don't love her there is nothing to value.
Exactly right..

It will also show her you actually have the balls and confidence to say it. If you really love her be brutally honest and proud of it.. Carry our head high.


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you should tell her the truth


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Tell her straight up. All this value shit is ridiculous. Don't believe the hype. She will value your love far more if she has it than if she doesn't. If you don't love her there is nothing to value.
This nails it.

Say it, it will make her happy. There's no point to be at constant battle. You're meant to be nice to each other, it's a relationship.


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in the words of snoop dogg:

don truss deez hoez

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I'm not sure. She always comes cuddling up to me and asking me if I love her? Should I tell her yes or should I dodge the answer? I'm hesitant to say yes because when people get something that hey want they immediately value it lower right?

So even though we 've been going out for 9 months, I don't like to tell her straight that I love her, rather I play the guessing game. Is this good practice or should I just tell her straight that I love her?
If you love her, then tell her that you do. Be a man.


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If you are still looking at this girl as "practice" after being in a relationship for nine months, you have problems far more serious and deep-seated than wondering whether you should say "I love you" or not.

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I know this is for the original poster, but I am convicted by your message. Thanks for your post.


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in the words of snoop dogg:

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LMAO!!

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Wait until she tells you.


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Do you love her? If yes, tell her... if not then don't, and move on.


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Do you love her? If yes, tell her... if not then don't, and move on.
That's what I feel... I'm in the same boat at the moment where she wants me to say it but I just dont feel it... getting forced to say it is making me turn off her sucks cos she super hot an really nice!

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This topic is beyond imagination.
If this is your view on a relationship? Should I tell her?? If I were you I'd leave it at this and dump her via text.


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