Say if you are having a faculty party and you are going clubbing/bars etc. what would be a good opener which would escalate sexual tension and give a good IOI from the outset? Girl I know in the year above maybe in to me so what would be the best plan of action on a nightout? I was kind of thinking of the whole lets do shots kinda thing etc. etc.?

If you know her and she knows you don't overdo it. Go for a simple hey and some observation of the party. Tension is built by teasing so you'll have to tease. Aswell as qualifying.

But for now, as you seem to be making quite a big deal out of this: keep it cool. Don't start to be someone you're not.

Nah lad, I have no problem picking up girls in the HB 7+ bracket but like this one is in the year above me like so what would you do to tease her? She will be hanging with her group of girls 6-7 of them so like it will be case of how would I isolate her from the group in a club. I know 3 of the the girls alright.

Well surprise surprise she was all over me in the club but it was way too early in the night. Was like 10pm and I bumped into her in the toilet when we just got off the bus to go to the club. Said to her that we will do shots in a playful sexual way etc. etc. later on. Was drinking with my friends when she came over and pinched my bum so we did shots. Some girls in my class wnated me to dance with them so I had to leave her go for 10 minutes. I said to her Il talk to you later on which I did within the space of only 20 minutes and she flaked on me. She got really discouraged and this girl would be known for playing guys and had this puppy dog look about her for the rest of the night when she saw me dancing with other girls. Im really regretting this now like because she is gorgeous. I should have kissed her and said Il talk to you later on. What do ye think guys? What do I do the next night I see her out? I see her in college every day anyway.

are you in UCC?