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PostPosted: Tue Oct 11, 2011 9:26 pm 
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Hi gentleman,
Im a newbie at PUA, started reading on it beginning of the summer and moving into a place where im stepping into it. Workin on the inner game as well. Ill keep this as short as possible. I met my HB10 online about 3 weeks ago. Her profile stopped me in my tracks and so I sent her an email. She replied the nxt day.

So at the start she makes it clear that she wants to take things slow, develope attraction and rapport. Ok. I offered her txt and or another way of talking besides the website emails and shes not budging. The conversations have gotten deep at times and very playful and fun. Weve exchanged over 100 emails between us and things seem to be going well.

Im always flirting with her. Been very direct about myself and disagreed with her many times. Her interest and like for me has been expressed a few times. I havent pushed because this girl is sensitive. So of course Ive treated her just the opposite at times. Not kissing her butt and being real with her. Apparently 2 years ago she basically got left at the alter, so shes still damaged goods.

I really want to meet with this girl and get things along but im at a bit of a loss at where to go next. The connection is there. Ive opened her up I believe farther than any other guy has in 2 years. She expressed herself as a good girl and she doent want to be easy. One other thing is I know alot about theology and the Bible and shes really drawn to that. But of course im not going to use God to get in her pants.
Im saying that because it kinda jives with her saying shes a good girl. Which we all know there all a few drinks away from lights out. lol
I like this girls mind and want some opinions on the "take it slow chic". This one I could give a shot at a real relationship. Thanks in Advance


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You've sent over 100 Emails :shock: Um isn't it way past due for a number close and a in person meeting.

Remember the goal of online dating is to go from Online to in person as quick as possible while still building connection comfort.


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Hey J lol@ the :shock: I understand your angle. Ive been poking around in some threads and realize the situation. Also that you wouldnt find yourself in it. But im here now, ya know. Whats the best way to push for the meeting or an escalation?
I have some emails to reply to tonight of hers and she did give a door to bring it up. This is the biggest resource that I have stumbled across for Online. Not much esle out there. I think im going to be direct with her and if I get a block, cease contact and c if she comes around. what do you think?


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 12, 2011 4:54 pm 
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Hey J lol@ the :shock: I understand your angle. Ive been poking around in some threads and realize the situation. Also that you wouldnt find yourself in it. But im here now, ya know. Whats the best way to push for the meeting or an escalation?
I have some emails to reply to tonight of hers and she did give a door to bring it up. This is the biggest resource that I have stumbled across for Online. Not much esle out there. I think im going to be direct with her and if I get a block, cease contact and c if she comes around. what do you think?
Sounds like a plan. You should definitely have enough rapport to at least have her number and ask for a date by now without much problem at all. :)


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