okeey so im some what new to the game, i've read two books on pu (the game, and how to succeed with women). I have not used any canned routines at all yet, but i have changed the way i act around women a lot and it has made a huge change in the way i interact. Im going on a second date with this girl i used to go to school with 4 yrs ago. i have built attraction between us but i want to try and use a routine because i sometimes get awquard later in relationships. so please help.

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Awkward.. lol

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check out the closing and day 2 section. also check out the newbie questions, i just posted today a writing that talks about this.

I wouldn't say you actually need a routine at this point. Focus on building more attraction while building comfort. Build those two things right now. You successfully do that on your day 2 with this girl and you should be knocking at the door of seduction, if not going there. What have you already done to build attraction?

You can use your words, and definitely use kino, to build and amp up the attraction. Then, connect with her with some stories about yourself and DHVing yourself and even listening to her to build comfort. Don't let yourself get nervous about it. You've actually passed the hardest part, the intial time with her. Look at it that way, because most guys have a problem even getting to that point.

thanks for the advice, i kinda posted this last minute so i didnt get to use it this time but it will probably help for the future. A field report if anyones interested; i used kino and DHVing not anything that made me sound cocky or trying too hard. ended it with k-close, 4shizzle

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