| Hey guys,
for those who haven't read my other posts, here is the deal:
I'm pretty open and like to socialize. I don't have much AA, but I suck at building attraction. And here I need your help.
Before I went out yesterday, I re-read the chapter "attraction" in Magic Bullets and made some notes to stick to. I wanted to concentrate only on attraction and "master" it, before I go to the next steps. But after reading the whole chapter I was still thinking "HOW do I do it?". My "life" only started last year, before that I was a major AFC, overweight, unemployed and sitting at home all day, watching movies and sitting in front of the computer.
So, as you can imagine, I don't have much good (DHVing) to tell about my life before last year. And then last year, when I finally got my shit together I started a relationship (which is ended now) and mostly concentrated on my girl. So there was still not much cool stuff I could use to talk about (Except a lot of Sex, which I am not going to talk about as a DHV to another girl ).
So, It's hard for me to create a DHV-Story, at least without lying and totally inventing some stories, which I'm not comfortable with.
I try the other stuff, especially the "being alpha" part. I watch my bodylanguage, eye contact, I try to talk loud and slowly. I always keep my cool etc.
But that is obviously not enough.
Of course, now some of you will say "get some cool stuff going on", but it's not that easy. Money is an issue at this time. I went back to school, to get my qualification for college and I will start majoring in psychology (hopefully) next year after the summer. Since I am getting government aid for going to school, I am only allowed to earn little money, otherwise the government aid will be reduced. So I only have a part time job (not much to DHV there).
I just became member at the gym, so at least I am going to work out 3 times a week. I also booked introductary dance lessons (starting in november), But that's it. I go to evening school (where I have a very high status) and go out practically every weekend, mostly to train my pickup skills (and of course have fun).
So, any advice for me, how to build attraction, how to DHV, without spending too much money and without lying my teeth off? Or just how to get cool stuff going on without needing money?
I use my free time mostly to study for school and reading about self development, pickup etc. I think I still have inner game issues, which I'm working on.
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Remember, women are not linear, logical creatures. If
you do things that make sense, they will do things that
don’t make any sense at all. (David DeAngelo)
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