got a girls FB from POF, didnt actually realise she was a 10 as she only had a couple of pictures on POF. Either way soon as it changed from chatting on POF to FB SHE ONLY EVER GIVES FEW WORD ANSWERS!!! it does my head in, i cant be bothered chatting to a girl that makes conversation so difficult.
any tips?

Yep, you will run into this a lot the longer the conversation goes without a # close or a scheduled date.

Honestly, I've never found a way to save the situation once they start giving one-few word answers because they're starting to get bored and losing interest. At this point, meeting up usually isn't going to happen. You can try, but my guess is you'll get the typical bullshit

"i'm busy"
"idk when I can"

It's too bad women (and men) can't just have enough of a spine to say "Yeah I'm not interested."

Women will continue responding to your messages out of either kindness or something to do. Yeah, they're evil that way.

Actually when I asked her out she said yeah, but then went quiet so could be bullshit!
Tried being a bit mean to her earlier to see if that would change anything and she said
"so you're not interested?'
THEN WENT QUIET AGAIN!!!

ARRRGGGH!!

Sounds like she wasn't that interested. Tho to repeat what cg319 said, get a number closed.

Got her number and she is chasing me. Later on il post up a bit of the conversation. I had to be a bit of a prick and call her out on her bullshit though.

I don't see this ending well if you had to call her out on her BS. Tho it be interesting seeing the convo tho.

Lol I'm sure your right, will be fun seeing though

Have to put it up tomorrow as only using my iPhone. It's worth a read I think.

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FridayJiminy Billybob
(replying from what you asked on POF)
unfriended you because all i was getting from you was 1 word answers and no conversation.you where just another "randomer" on my friends list- the sort that you where talking about deleting yourself. if you wouldnt put up with those sort of people, why should I?x

FridayCeri
thnx

YesterdayJiminy Billybob
Your one word answer proves I know your type so well. Anyway take care.

YesterdayCeri
And wat is exactly my type

18 hours agoJiminy Billybob
You're the sort of girl that has guys throw themselves at you left right And centre- and you like having the power knowing that all these guys are really pussies that are basically your "minions". You arnt interested in them in a sexual way but love knowing that they will hit on you. Couple of examples. 1, when you had a status about taking applications for boyfriends. I know you will say it was just a laugh but you know deep down the attention feels good. 2, your pictures of you in a bra etc, you KNOW the attention you will get.

But deep down your probably really sensitive. When you go out and someone says something nasty I'm sure you act like your all tough, but deep down you think about it all the way home.

I'm sure with your friends your a really sweet girls when your "bitch shield" is down. But when it comes to guys, men have always acted like your shit don't stink.

I'm sure your a nice person deep down, but I'm not going to be a sheep fighting for your attention with the rest of the herd, if you want to show me your true self, cool. Otherwise plenty of people who actually deserve my attention

17 hours agoJiminy Billybob
Peace

11 hours agoCeri
Thanks for that but not all men r the same Either

10 hours agoJiminy Billybob
how many men have told you what I said? I'm guessing 1-2 tops

2 hours agoCeri
none y would i

2 hours agoJiminy Billybob
They wouldn't. That's my point. And it's not about the guys. It's about you

2 hours agoCeri
wat av i done to u

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
Nothing. Might sound strange but I'm doing you a favor. There is no hate, no bad feelings, originally I thought you might be cool to chill with, I might have changed my mind on that but but that doesn't mean I think badly of you, I just feel sorry for you. X

about an hour agoCeri
feel sorry for me y

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
Because of the facade you put up (how you want people to see you) i can see straight through it.x

about an hour agoCeri
im just me tho x

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
If you say so. But I know your different with your girlfriends then you are with guys.lol heard you where in romford last night. Same here

about an hour ago
realli who told u i was in romford last night x

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
I have spies everywhere. Where did you go?

about an hour agoCeri
ciroc u

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
Kosho. Was supposed to be a cheap quiet one but was anything but.

about an hour agoCeri
cool sounds like fun x

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
Was guna say if you where in koshos you night you might have been one of the girls bugging us!

about an hour agoCeri
haha na think u would of noticed tht x

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
Why would I have noticed?

about an hour agoCeri
if i was one of the girls bugging ya u would of reconised me x

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
Lol I'm not so sure. Have a couple of bottles of vodka in a club and girls come out like vultures, it's funny though 

about an hour agoCeri
lol xxxxx if id saw u i prob would been aving ago at u ne way bout wat ur problem is x

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
I'm only guna ask once, are you worth chilling with?

about an hour agoCeri
defo x

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
No problem with you, just trying to open your eyes a bit, like I said under that aloof exterior I'm sure there is a sweet girl, I just don't pussy foot around.

about an hour agoCeri
i am a sweet girl u just didnt get to no me

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
Its because your "tough" exterior is a put off. I'm sure the other side of you is cool
So you can honestly say your fun to hang with?
Right now I'm 50/50 if you would be a laugh or not!

about an hour agoCeri
im a nutter to hang wiv lol
u spoke to mendes

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
Hmmmmm... What's your number. Il find out if your a nutter or not

about an hour agoCeri
hows u aving my number gona find tht out lol

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
I'm going to give you a chance to come out some time with me, show me the nutter/ sweet side of you. X
I'm going Vegas for 10 days though on friday. So you might have to wait till I get back

about an hour agoCeri
sounds cool can i cum

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
One step at a time, you already want to go on holiday with me. Bit early in our relationship for that 
Phone number is a good first step. X

about an hour agoCeri
lol xxx (I took out her number for obvious reasons) dnt say nuf to mendes plz

about an hour agoJiminy Billybob
Don't worry I'm discreet ;/)
Tell you what- send me a txt.
(took out my number for obvious reasons)

lol. Ya that's not going to end well. This girl is what 18? 19? Your best move here is try for a one nighter then move on. As you said she is use to guys giving her attention, time to give her a dose of reality. Saying that you could have done a better job of calling her out. As you sounded kinda butt hurt there. I would have ask her if she was some sort of AI due to her one word replies. And maybe make some cocky funny remark about her being an attention whore and basically reverse the tables.

But I have to say this is one of many reasons why I don't game girls on FB. As its way easier for them to be attention whores and its harder to switch the tables on them/

Nice dude... you were able to break her down by saying stuff people were afraid to otherwise say... I like it. Im having some trouble on pof and trying to learn

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lol she is a 22 year old stripper. i tried being a bit cocky/funny another time but it just didnt work, hence me being a bit of a c**t to her! lol either way she text me almost immediatly/ called me last night.

Her being a stripper explains things. Sounds like she never been called out before. If you play your cards right she will melt in your hand. Tho I be cautious of doing anything more than a one nighter as she may get clingy seeking your attention because your not like all the other guys that give her attention as you didn't play into that.

yeah when she called last night her "bitch shield" was straight back up, totally aloof like she didnt give a shit what people thought, she said she could have ignored me when i tried calling her out but wanted to defend herself. i told her if she really didnt care she wouldnt have felt the need to defend herself

urgh this ones going to be a nightmare though i can tell!

oh and when she told me she had a boob job i said i didnt even notice she said "your the first guy that hasnt asked me if they where real or not"

lol i said "why would i need to ask? tits are pretty common, every girl has em"

lol love your reply. I might have said something like "So" or "I am not surprise". But yea I think you played your cards wrong from the start here and didn't come off strong enough. Its most probably too much work to get a one nighter out of this girl but you can try as you where able to get her number. But I think you learned your lesson to not get the girl's FB profile but get her number instead.