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PostPosted: Mon Oct 10, 2011 1:35 am 
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hey guys, heres the situation, i can open girls by using my own openers, after i have opened them up, i normally go for some DHV stories, and go on the normal conversation after the stories, eg.where have u been to last friday?? but today i saw my friend talkin to a couple random girls, he is a natural, he simply opened them by sayin ''hi, have we met?'', after that he didnt tell any stories at all, all he did was goin straight to the normal conversation, but he did it in an interesting matter, so guys, is there anyway that u can make the normal conversation funny or interesting???? if there is, what would be the best way to do it??and do u guys have a conversation list eg. things that gals would be interested in, or it all comes natural????


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 10, 2011 2:57 am 
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Say what you would normally say but say it in an unusual way. One day I just talked to some random guy on the street (must have been a natural but I didn't see his game) and he asked me "Where do you go to school?" Mega boring conversation 99% of the time, but then he energetically kept on talking "Cuesta, poly, blah blah" until I stopped him and answered. He took a normal everyday question and turned it into an energetic routine. So I tried it out, and it worked, the target did not lose interest when I asked like that. This was a huge improvement to before, since they usually zoned out at this time. The key was good energy and don't stop until you have said every possibility or they stop you with an answer. I talk about whatever comes to mind, so I guess its natural for me. Once I get to know someone I can talk to them pretty easily, its the first five minutes that I have to get through. After that I just start telling stories and commenting on stuff. They are definitely more interested in certain topics, like shopping, emotions, relationships, themselves, ect. but you don't have to talk to them just about their interest. It's a little try-hard. It just helps sometimes to get them involved in the conversation. Once I get going I transition to 90% natural game (occasionally I like to throw openers and canned game into an interaction with a friend or someone I already opened just to see the reaction) since that is where I am going to get anyways. My canned game is mostly a booster for the beginning of an interaction to me.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 11, 2011 6:59 pm 
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Watch talk-shows. Hosts are professional conversationalists.

Watch Craig Ferguson. He's a sociopath, but excellent at being funny and entertaining. Also, he has skills at diverting to different topics when a current topic is about to go dry.

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 13, 2011 7:23 pm 
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yo wil master, people have different preferences when it comes to conversation topics. I'm not a fan of canned stuff, however I do stick to a certain routine when talking to new people.

It goes something like this. Open, make observation about person/situation, general small talk, then I'll ask something completely random usually it barely makes sense. Stick with me on this one :roll:. The random question is what I'll use to spark some life into the conversation and set myself aside as a confident/different person who's not afraid to ask someone "what's your favourite flavour of sticker?". From there your options open up, it serves as an ice breaker usually gives you some excuse for cheap kino/negs on targets choice and disqualifies any interest in the target too.

There is of course a downside to this in that if it doesn't work you'll crash and burn, but generally speaking if someone's wierded out by it to that extent I probably don't want to bother talking to them for that long anyways, look at it like a "fun test".

Peacocking works well for something keeping the conversation going too, wearing something as simple as an unusual necklace gives them an excuse to talk to you some more while you tell them some story about where you got it.

hope some of this helps


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