Hey Im new here and Ive recently downloaded a shit load of PUA books and Im reading "The Game" right now, Im 18 and Ive always had opportunities to get a girl friend but I lack a lot of confidence, so I played football for a year which helped me A LOT with getting more female friends. I thought more female friends=more girls that like me= eventually get a girl friend. It was some what true since lots of female friends=figured out a little of how much girls are like everyone else (and most are NOWHERE NEAR what they appear). The reason why Ive never really had a girlfriend
were for a lot of reasons:
1) I have a turban even though i dont believe in god (to avoid getting kicked outa my house i have to wear it and follow all the BS)
2) Dont have a car
3) Im un-attractive
4) Im fat
5) Im not their race, whole turban thing=lot of pressure?
6) Parents dint allow me to date/have females friends over
7) Relegion=no sex till marrage even though all of my cousions have done it (just not with females they were 12 and i guess VERY desperate), so now they are all relegious freaks and follow it well...like a religion, and my 12 year old couson and I stole some panties from a fe-male friends house (i did it to test the waters of who and who i cant trust) I showed a cousin the findings and told em i got lucky with a bunch of girls and i kept them as a trophy, the next day we were all at my friends house, and one of my cusions took me aside and started giving me a lecture on how this is SOO bad (you could tell how jelious he actully was in the background even if he wasnt going to admit it) i told him it were all lies, and found out that no one in this world is turstworthy (other people=other stories not enough time right now since its 2am haha)
Morals, Principals, Guilt
Today I know this much....
To get a girl
nothing matters, other than some confidence and the stones to talk to them
it doesnt matter what you look like, what you get paid, or even what you wear
(^Found this out just by complementing girls and walking away they ALL smiled 100% of the time and always thought Id say more but I left them wanting more, and I also had nothing else planned -even though the complements were true- with a little bit of panic)
Also some girls can be shallow I have ran into a few of them but you can EASLY tell if their shallow, if they fuck em, move on they're bitches and will have a shitty husband and life (its the way i look at it, makes me happy and makes me get over em)
Also 90% of my female friends turned out/are reallllllll BITCHES like they will be nice to you to your face...but the second you turn... I was amazeeeedddddd (this also helped me knock out my guilt part since 99% of hot girls are like this)
^knocked out my guilt
Morals=Since i no longer believe in a higher power (still debating but 99% convinced)
so morals=gone
Now the last thing is/are my principles, I dont really like the idea of banging thousands of females since I know Ill get addicted and will probably never settle down, So for now Im just looking for a girl friend just becuase Ive read a lot about everything about reletaionships, sex, kissing and what not in the last 2weeks but than again it could be my vergin brain talking i woudnt mind the fredom of banging anyone while still being me
Maybe that was just in highschool?
idk ima freshmen in college and I got a lot of learning to do, The new problem about this is I was VERY confedent in highschool, since it was my sr year, We had a great football season (i broke my hand in the ned and missed the last 4 games though
) And i had a lot of friends,even during our college orientation i managed to make a lot of friends, but than came hell month...aka my birthday....
In august... i turned 18, not only did i have a SHIT family party, but my grand parents were visting from india, so we were shopping almost non stop
At the time i hated shopping so i just went to the movies or looked for some cloths (i got very intrested in buying good coths and looking good, as in skinny ties, black geens, sneekers, plat shirt, leather jacket, yeah... that kind hahah) Also started reading mens health and just becoming a better me, but in this process i was ISOLATING my self i was almost always alone, and everyone i knew were off to their campus/oreantation/jobs/camps.... but just now i realzied that i could of had so many sets/approches done and met SOO many more people wow thats a downer lol...
also the good thing about my turban?
It filters bitches! any superfical bitch that cares about shit like that doesnt even look at me, but the funny thing is anyone i find attractive i can get them to notice me (check me out, since i wear good enough clothing to show off my arms and sholders) and i have a little beard so i look like im 25-29 when im 18 so i get the HOTTTT girls in their 20s to even look at me
i know that was a bit of a read but it felt good getting it out there, and i hope i can use this site to become a better me, i wont be using this site so offten as i dont know how it works yet, and i have about 2-2.4 gigs of books to read (average ebook=200kb, 1,000kb= 1mb, 1000mb=1gb)
Hontesly I dont think ill read them all just a good few, and use these fourms for help
Thanks in advance
and sorrrrryyyy for the horrid spelling and gramer im tired as shit sice i had a long day and a longer day ahead of myself
Might edit later good night!...or shouldit be good morning now hahahha
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