So i meet this HB8 hanging around the bar last night, I start chatting her up and she's showing lots of IOIs, funny thing she has some loser orbiter with his arm around her while I'm obviously hitting on her. Anyway she leans in to say something and I say something like you didn't just lean in to kiss me we just met I don't hook up that easily and she kisses me on the cheek, then I'm like if you're gonna kiss me give me a real kiss and we start making out for a short time.

Anyway we flirt for like 5-10 minutes and I was pretty drunk so I don't really remember much there's not much I could use as callback humour. Wondering how do I text this chick and get to f-close her because she's pretty fucking hot and the way I picked her up was so alpha, my wing was impressed.

Advice really appreciated.

I'd say number 1, wait like 4 days to get ahold of her. Be the alpha that you were when you picked her up at the bar. don't ask her to hang out, tell her. not rudely, but confidently like theres no wayyyy in hell she will be saying no so you got it taken care of. woman respond to a guy with a plan. keep it short too, don't start a text marathon with her. whether or not you get to f-close her is entirely up to your level of game from there. good luck man!

Hey mate Confidence here,

I know how you feel, you're probably thinking what should I say so I get a response from this girl, right?. The latest thing I tried and has been succesful is just being a nice guy non of this alpha crap. the text I would send would be "hey [name] nice meeting you last night how did you enjoy your night at [location]". The text is simple non threatening and asking her a question. But I reckon you call this call rather then text. Seriously calling shows that you have a lot of confidence to call instead of a text and remember she would be just as nervous as you are even if she's an absolute hottie as well.

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I ended up texting her the day after we met "beer 5... afroman 0. This is the second time i've quit drinking this month how did your night go" (I have a big afro that bitches love) and she gave me a marathon text and invited me out on saturday to her friend's 23rd. We texted back and forth I was really flirty and at one point she asked me what my full name was to add me on FB, I was really tired so I went to bed for a nap and replied a few hours later, no reply.

I texted her back the same thing about an hour ago, just giving her my full name still no reply or fb add. I'm thinking of calling her tomorrow and not mentioning that she hasn't replied, and immediately going on about how i shouldn't be talking to her because she will corrupt me (We joked about how I'm an altar boy on chastity and that I wont let her corrupt me, great routine), and then letting her bring up saturday first and going from there.

Waiting four days would have been too long we only met for like 5 minutes literally and by that time she would have thought it was just a one night thing and that she's probably just a booty call if I did contact her. I'm not looking to be some monstrous alpha entity, I just want to get laid, haha. Thanks though.

Honeslty man, theres no rush. Seems like youve done enough for her to remember you and sounds like youve planted some good seeds to pick up on later (corruption).

No harm leaving it a couple of days, and when you do text back you can just say youve ben busy and havent had a chance to contact her, even if it was her who should have been replying.

Push pull works in other areas too, youve pushed the relationship forward a little, now just give it a little time before you push again.

Hmm I agree and would normally wait but she invited me out on saturday, 2 days from now, and I'm pretty horny. Now that you tell me though I may be coming off as too keen, although I think a good phone call would change that. Not sure if I want to flake on her just yet.