I've been following you guys for awhile but finally decided to jump in with a sort of journal of entries about my next few weeks or longer of gamin girls.

The reason I've started is because I really wanna get back in the game; i've been out for so long, I wouldn't even know how to handle a relationship yet I'm going for one. Not looking for one night lays, although maybe possible with fwb, but a bf/gf thing. I'm 19 and I am having lunch with this HB9 tomorrow. If she flakes or lunch doesn't go well, I have a back up girl, another HB9 and lil fiesty, that's been hypin me up to hang out this week. And then if that girl falls through I have an HB8 that I'm keeping on the back burner as a last resort.

Hahaha after re-reading, it might sound like I'm doing well but I feel like I can be doing so much better ... Yah know?

Anyways, encouraging advice or your two cents is always appreciated!

Hahahaha before I talk about my date with the HB9, I just noticed the head title i put on this thread. For some background info, I've always been that 'nice' guy girls would talk about and how I'm such a good friend/listener to the point where everyone put me in the LJBF zone. But I've decided I hated this life style and that if they weren't going to date me I wouldn't be friends with them. So I pretty much stoppede talking to all my girl friends and isolated myself. I started to read about pua stuff and decided I would take some of the things I've learned and apply it in every day situations. I definatly see an improvement from 2 years ago but i feel like I can do so much better!

Anyways on to my date.

Today was the first date I've actually been on ever, in a 1-1 situation. I ran perfect text game on this HB9 after getting her number over the weekend and scheduled for lunch today.

She showed up before I did and called me wondering where I was, so I took this as a good sign. Reassured her I was on my way and showed up a few minutes later. I didn't hug her when I first saw her because I thought it might be weird since this was the first time soberly talking to eachother. So I just started out talking about the place we were at (she's never been there) and we got in line and ordered food, mostly fluff talk. As I come up to the cashier, I payed for both our meals (Most PUA's will say don't do it! but I said fuck it) As soon as I paid for it, she started saying, "Wait! No don't pay. I never let anyone pay." I noticed she started to blush, and just came off smoothly, "Don't worry about it. You can get me next time." and Smiled.

We sit down and start eating, I actually spent more time talking to her then I did eating which was weird for me. haha. She was actually putting forward an effort to keep the conversation going when it dropped dead for a few seconds, another good sign. I got her laughing a lil, she even tried qualifying herself without my assistance! We were talking about school and how she wants to be a cosmotologist but it's not realistic (money wise) and that she doesn't want to rely on her future husband for support financially. Basically saying she wants to be independent. (I think that's a qualifyer?)

Anyways, we leave together and I gave her a hug goodbye, saying "We should do it again sometime." And she says for sure and that she'll text me? Idk if i should text her first though? Thoughts on this?

Time literally flew by! I was having alot of fun with her. She's a cool gal and definatly will be trying to see her again sometime soon.

Your still at a point where your gonna be in the friend zone. The "nice guy" thing is fine. But you need to add 2 things to it.

1. Kino. Read up on it, learn how to do it properly.

2. Sexual Innuendos.


don't do them together unless your already sleeping with the girl, or have her where sex can take place. Without those 2, it is gonna be very difficult to get laid.

If you only pick one, go with Kino. Usually, girls love to be touched. Just think going in a cold pool. You don't just jump in. You go in slowly, starting with feet so you get use to it. Then your whole body goes it slowly. That's how you escalate kino with girls.