the quick run down is we where together 10 months, i decided to move to uni she had to move to her dads because her mum moved away, i think she started distancing herself over about a month, we broke up over a month ago, i havent spoken to her except a text a few days back, i still love her and everything reminds me of her, i took styles advice with the do you want her or do you want to win, i decided i really do want her. its really bugging me im not sleeping cus im up all night thinking about it, id rather try and get shot down in flames than get a year down the line and think why the fuck didnt i try...


i was thinking taking a day off from uni to go see her at college ( we are both 20/21) and suprising her and playing her her fave song on guitar and singing to her.

so let it rip guys all advice is deffo wanted

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The feeling you are experiencing are normal feelings after a break up, with time they will go away. What is the reason you broke up, i did not understand. I experienced the same thing, and a book on the subject help me a lot... But anyways why did you break up? You are young, you will find someone else.

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My opinion is that if you go to her college and surprise her with singing her favorite song, she will reject you. After a break-up, you have to give her time to realize that she wants to be with you. If you had a beautiful relationship, after a short time she will forget about your fight and come back to you. You said, that you broke up with her a month ago. I think, that in this time, she had the time to decide, if she wanted to be with you again.
What I suggest is that you should tell her that you want to meet up and talk a little bit, if you really need to know what's between you. You should talk about you two, but be playful and try to flirt with her. Watch her body-language, not listen to her words and see if she would want to be in a relationship with you again.
If you surprise her with romantic stuff, you won't trigger attraction in her and that's what you have to do. Don't do such things to repair your relationships.
I wrote a little article about the best method to win her back http://seduceandattract.blogspot.com/20 ... -back.html and I hope that it will help you.

Above poster's opinions are correct.
Might as well meet her at the airport while she's boarding her plane and profess your love for her. This isn't Sixteen Candles. Won't work. Sappy shit like that might push her farthur away.

thanks for the advice we broke up because she said she wasnt the same person she was when we got together, we both moved away from our home town and i think she just distanced her self, i decided ill try meet up with her and see how it goes, it just seems a shame i got into game to get a good gf i found one and its gone........ someone needs to wright a book on how to keep a girl, not just getting her into bed

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hahahhaaha! i cover that in my book, lol!!!!!!! puas can not keep girls for 2 seconds... Now after my shameless plug, move on, the line she use to break up with you is a fancy way to say time to see other people. You are done move on!

Possibilities:

1.- she got bored
2.- she does not see a future
3.- attraction die
4.- she met someone else
5.- after all the lines and routines, she realized you are not who you pretended to be... biggest problem with mm.

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