There is this cute girl in my community college art class, but I dont know how I should approach her. We have assigned seats so I cant move where I sit so I have to sit a row behind her. One time I was going into the schools cafeteria and as I opened a door to get inside she was leaving and we both stopped and made eye contact for 2 seconds and she looked down and kept walking. I dont know if this means shes interested but there are a couple things that bother me if I approach her after class.(if thats even a good idea)

*In the past I had 2 experiences where I would talk to a certain girl in my CC class and they would end up having a boyfriend. They just randomly brought up a little story that was related to what we talked about.
*Im next to 3 girls in that class and I talk to all of them and they flirt back to me so I dont know if she hates that or thinks something bad of me
*She always the first to leave the class to get to her car and leave
*If I get rejected I would feel the class will be awkward until its over in December
The last one is the main reason. Because if she says "I have a boyfriend" and I say something to just be friends. Theres a chance of not getting a number so I still wont talk to her and the awkwardness of me sitting behind her for rest of semester.

If she turns you down, dont be a pussy about it and feel awkward. everytime you see her, put a big grin on your face and say whatsup.


Usually when girls say they have a bf/aren't willing to hook up, ill just be like "thats a shame, you're pretty cute and now I have to go look at other girls "


Hope I helped man, dont be afaid.

Well I dont want her to seem like Im a player by saying that lol

OK, so last week I approached her on Thursday and it went alright. She didnt show up to class on Tuesday which I was kinda disappointed. Today she sat next to me in class and I got to know her more. She smiled a lot and did a lot of kino with me. Prob in order it was:
High Five
I touched her arm when I was talking to her on a subject
We had a thumb war (I just if I win then you have to give me a hug, if you win I have to give you a hug)
I gave her a hug and she gave me one
I touched her knee (she is flexable and had both feet on the chair)
After class I gave her a spin as a present
I touched her arm saying "You seem like a fun person I would like to get to know you outside of class" And said that we should get coffee sometime and got her number.

While she was giving me her number we were walking to her car and talking. When we got to her car she said her number and we said bye. I tried to go for a hug and Im not sure if she noticed but she just went into her car (her back was already turned but she never turned to look at me) and I was just standing there and said "talk to you later and walked away". So I dont know if she did that on purpose.

Anyway, I really dont want to mess it up with her because I think shes cute. Should I even text her this weekend or should I wait til I see her on Tuesday

Text her something fun and playful and relevant to your interactions. For some reason guys seem to really sweat about when to text a girl, it doesn't really matter, it's what you text that matters more.

If I meet a girl on a night out, I'll text her the same night or at least the next morning.

Calm down. Stop worrying so much about messing it up with her. You obviously were good enough to attract her, so you should have some faith in your skills. Don't let your attraction to her cause you to act like a beta male. Treat her with respect as long as she respects you, but don't let her walk all over you.

Keep us posted.