Hey everyone im Jack and im a situation that may seem odd to you guys, Im a very athletic kid, im about 6'1, very muscular, and i get complements from girls all the time about how good looking i am, but heres the thing you would think all these great features would help in having alot of dates, a girlfriend but it only backfires. When gaming a girl and she begins to like me, she will begin asking me ? like weres your girlfriend seems like you got alot of them, or your game is real smooth you seem like a player or a dog etc. they also seem to be very cautious of me and what they do to not let me get close to them (emotionally). This sucks because im really a nice guy and all i want is a real relationship its goting so bad that im losing confidence in myself. Can anyone help and let me know what i can do to help me with these situations?

Are you making SOIs, and complimenting her on things other than physical beauty? This can help a girl feel like you think that she is special to you.

O did i forget to mention that theres a rumor about me going around the town about how i like to play women and i went out with over 30 girls already in one year, and these rumors are nonsense, and so untrue is there any way i can use that to my advantage or am i doom? and yes marvel i make alot of SOIs, i rarely talk about there physical beauty but these rumors are killing me

How old are you?

If you're young, it's a good thing that word is spreading about you being a player. Girls are curious and still learning about sex. They're looking for guys to have sex with and if you're already having heaps of sex it means you must be good at it... so they'll come to you.

i just turn 18, so how should i go about it, cause they think the only thing i want from them is sex, is there anyway i can get them to let the guard down?

Girls at that age want to have sex but they are absolutely terrified of being labelled a slut.

You'll want to:
a) emphasise that sex is fun and feels good.
b) assure them that you are discreet and that you won't tell anyone about what happens between you two. Follow through with this one; if you start bragging, girls will stop coming.

age = 18 = cool
body = mascular = cool
rumours = fucked 30 chicks =cool
so there is nothing wrong with you. You are COOL!!
So don't let it be a confidence issue.
The problem is with your game and that can be fixed. It's also cool. Isn't it? So don't worry.
From the information that you provided, i think
1. You should stop making that much statement of interests.
2. Tease them
3. Qualify them hard
4. Make them feel special by sincerely appreciating what you like about them.
5. Frame them as being sexual and frame yourself as a guy who is good at keeping secrects (do them after you have done the above mentioned things)
cheers !

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Thanks guys i really appreciated. Im Knew to all his PUA stuff that has been helping guys for so long and i am really interested in learning everything possible there is about this. But there are alot of materials out there that gets me confuse, do you guys know which ones has the highs success rate and are easier to learn?

That's a great situation to be in seriously! Perfect opportunity to DHV. What you need to do is just say a simple sound bite--"I don't wan to be tied down right now, but I suppose if I met someone who was out of this world...." Follow my point?