Neil strauss in hes book the style life challenge talks about qualify and disqualify qualify talks about when the women does something good or something that is perceived positive u give her praise say well thats amazing babe very good babe and disqualify when she does something bad or something that is perceived negative u tease her with her disqualifier

What does it mean to tease her with a diqualifier?

does that mean for example the girl of my dreams wants to go to groove bar which is a really shitty club

Do i tease her and say"angel nicci beach is more groovy than groove bar'' in a playfull humourous way

buddy i waited a lot that some one would reply to this post but no one did. Actually today on, i am after some dancing monkeys here who are purely useless but behave like their father owns this forum. I was waiting that any of them would reply and i would bang him right here. But anyways, here is what you asked
it's really simple
disqualifier
anything that disqualifies you as a romantic interest.
Tease
anything that makes fun of the girl without insulting her. If done right, it makes the girl laugh.
Ok still hard to mix them up? Ok here is an example
you, "why are you wearing so high heels? You think you are short? I don't really like short (disqualified) but with that much high heels, i hope you would be hijaking plans off the sky some day (teased)"

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thanks bru counldnt reply sooner because my internets capped i tried it on the girl and it works like wonders she fed me when we went out and i teased her the way u told me and boy it worked she was all over me next day i was eating dinner with her parents lol on our second date!!!!!

i have another question when i tease her do i neccesarily have to win when i tease her in a fun way or do i lose to make her win to get her?

do my fun teases and comebacks always have to be better than hers or do i have to lose some to get her bru?

my pleasue to help you. You have to win always whenever it comes to verbal jousting

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Do i seriously have to win all the time one tease i did she kind of got cross with me and said you always right hey?

yes, you seriously have to win. And if she creates any kind of dramma, just dont react. Bytheway, you didnt vote for me yet?

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