Alright PUA Confidence here. Met a beautiful HB 9 the other night and basically D'floor gamed her as she was dancing solo. I bought her a drink (I never buy girls drinks but thought as my convo was running low this has become a new strategy of mine and is proving to be successful however only buy a drink it you're 90% sure you're in and you sense final resistance). I hooked up with her, got her number and organised a date. a few days later I called her and she answered where we talked for ages and it went really well and I confirmed we were meeting two days later.

Day of the date I text her 10min prior to meeting saying I'm going to be running 10min late. When I arrived she wasn't there so I waited 10min then rang her to only get the message bank. I waited 5min more then bailed as I knew she wasn't coming so I met up with some college mates for lunch instead. an hour later she calls and says she's at work and had to go in. I told a few friends and they said told me that they reckon she was playing me and that she only rang because she felt bad for leaving me.

What I'm basically asking is that I gamed well but should of I text her earlier that day to remind her and also we will be seeing each other at a night club this Thursday, what negs should I use to tease her for ditching me and to make it up to me (remember I'm a catch not the other way round haha).

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The IDC (I don't care) approach is always the best

When I am arranging a hang out, I always , make sure I have built enough comfort(Looks like you did that with your long phone call). And on the day of, I always call the girl with our arrangement of where and when, even if we have discussed it via text. This allows for some more comfort building and re-builds your image in her head instead of a text.

Ex. I was taking a girl out for pool and I called her with our plans couple hours before hand and just joked around saying shit like " It's going be lots of fun, 100 bucks a ball, can't wait to win all your money"

That example is just meant to show that you need to make her feel comfortable and remind her she is coming to have fun. I guess this could be done through text but I find over the phone is a little more convincing. Girls get nervous like you and I, you need to deal with it.

As for negs, when making your plans agian, I would say something along the lines of "Oh btw, I'm bringing a back up girl for entertainment incase you decide to be lame and go to work agian". Make it seem like it wasn't a big deal but you still didn't like it. Comprende?