what are some attractive hobbies

Whatever interests you. Don't do something because you think women will like it. Do something because YOU like it.

I would have to agree. Game isn't about creating a false lifestyle to get laid. Game is just a new way to present yourself as you are. Obviously some things can be helped (e.g. self-esteem, wordings, etc.). However, your interests are what your interests are. Try some new things with people.

The other night, I decided to go try some free salsa lessons with one of my friend's sisters. That does a lot of things for me. First, it was a new experience that was interesting during my day. Second, I was hanging out with a female. Third, it was a damn good time.

I met upwards of 20 women there and most of their numbers. The hardest choice is deciding which ones to call back. I found that social dance is a lot of fun, so I may keep trying it out. Especially since dance is a predominantly female hobby, this would be a good choice for ME.

As for you, try finding a hobby that includes a female demographic and see if you like it. If not, then move on. Just be happy doing whatever it is you're doing.

Surfing, Team Sports, Martial Arts, Music, Cooking, Pets, Fine Arts.

Anything YOU like, anything where you can self actualize. While team hobbies do have great aspects, (gets you out socializing, being a team playe etc..)
You do need individual hobbies.

I would suggest something with risk, where you can push yourself physically as well as mentally. Something that you as an individual can strive to master and you will find over time that this will help your inner game.

Read: Flow, the psychology of optimal experience by Mihaly-Csikszentmihalyi.

If you chose an activity that you need to be physically fit for, you will find yourself feeling good, looking good and not having to spend as much time in the gym. Get right into it, go in comps, test yourself.

Building on what has already been said:
Climbing, Adventure/endurance, Boxing, Cycling, Bass Jumping

I was gonna say whatever you're passionate about, but Sid beat me to it.

Hobbies aren't attractive, YOU are. Having passion for what you do just happens to be incredibly attractive.

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AznPersuasion - respect well said.

There is no need to start doing something just to be insteresting toward person. You are interested the way you present yourself. Plus women main interested is not in our hobbies (if that would be true then anybody who have interesting hobby would be insteresting which is not the case), but our attitude (confidence, respect, decisivness, courage ... - Alpha male characteristic - Survival instincts).

If women is interested in you, she will try to find out more about your hobbies and interests. So no need to be worry about not being interested. Try to be interesting while you speak about her interests or different topics. Definetly is great to have similar hobbies, because she can relate and create deeper connection.

Peace

rock climbing im just getting into it. crazy fun

Join a gym.. take classes in something

I have noticed that the outdoor sports (mountain climbing, canoeing etc) seem to go down well.

Thanks
Dave

This, 100 times this.

but take out Martial Arts if you're doing it for the chicks. Most will be much more interested in a painting and surfing guitarist who can cook a mean meal then they are in a surfing, painting black belt in whatever. Most girls don't care, the only ones that do are into martial arts themselves.

I enjoy playing video games, this is a terrible hobby and no matter how passionate one was for it, chicks don't care. So to anyone saying find something you like, its about passion, its not about girls, bullshit.

Same with guys who are crazy about football, I am not into it but try telling a girl about a fanasty football team and see where that gets you.


No traveling, surfing, rock climbing all great.

PS: I am sorry to sound bitter but I am guessing people looking here for advice need help and telling them to just be average wont help them.

That's because video games are just for fun and don't actually improve you as a person, or improve your physical endurance, maybe they make your thumbs stronger idk So it's not really a hobby, more a waste of time.
But, nonetheless, if you like your video games you should keep playing them no matter what girls say. I'm just saying it's not really impressive because it doesn't show ambition in real world, since games are just a fantasy.

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