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| Suriyel | PostPosted: Mon Oct 03, 2011 6:47 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sun Oct 02, 2011 6:39 am Posts: 62 Location: Chicago | | so what happened with the chick? did you see her again? sorry to necrobump
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| nixxor | PostPosted: Mon Oct 03, 2011 7:30 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Wed Nov 04, 2009 6:13 am Posts: 142 AOL: 1917+Overland+ave+apt#4 | | wtf are you saying?? being direct does not lower your value at all... it shows confidence and builds instant attraction. Direct might not be the most effective approach all the time but you sure will get better results when it does / save time.
It really depends on the situation and on the girl...
Now for the video: The girl is aight. dont put her on pedastal . She gave you IOI's from the beginning and she was interested in you when you asked for her # . Then you pushed it a little bit by trying to set-up an instant date close....
So that was not good. You also sounded excited about it. Not good as well.
What route is there to go after this? It's now all a texting / calling game.
What you need to do now:
Follow up immediately and by that I mean within the NEXT DAY. I even txt them right after or say something funny. Cocky funny will do.
as of right now you are just "a confident guy who approached her by the parking lot"
BUT there is no REAL connection between you two... and its not gonna cut it unless you build rapport / connection with her now.
good luck
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| nixxor | PostPosted: Mon Oct 03, 2011 7:45 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Wed Nov 04, 2009 6:13 am Posts: 142 AOL: 1917+Overland+ave+apt#4 | | i watched it again... One thing I like to point out is that even though you approached direct... it was still a bit under the radar.
You immediately just told her what to do. I really like that. I actually do this all the time. You are the person in charge. Get her used to it. No questions asked... d*** f****** b***.
So again from the very beginning she actually doesn't really know what is going on and why you tell her to pull over. It's like something cops would do. Then you tell her what is going on and she smiles. She still thinks you are joking as she says" are you serious?" ... showing that she has not experienced this before, she likes it and she might even have felt self-conscious towards you.
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