Alright guys, I haven't been on in a few weeks but i just thought i would like to share with you guys what happened last weekend and maybe get some advice.

So last saturday night, I met a girl a local bar in downtown LA and one thing led to another and we fucked at my place. There really isn't much of a story. It was a textbook mystery method night. Evey thing, and i mean everything went down like the Emotion Progression Model says it should. She was very sweet girl, tall, big boobies, a little thick (not fat at all but thicker then what I'm used to), face was pretty plain (oh well). She was a good HB7.

So yeh, That's my first F-close out of (hopefully) many more to come. I feel a good sense of encouragement. I have her number. I would like to keep this chick as a booty call if i can. Although I not sure how to handle that. Thats another new one for me too. So how do I go about it? I haven't called her number since then because I really haven't had the time to do anything.

So how should I handle this? If i wanted her to come over tomorrow night for sex, how do I do this without much investment and still make sure that she wont be lead to believe I want a relationship?

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you have to just tell her that you dont want a relationship.... BEFORE you fuck her!

I disagree... just get her to sleep with you the same way you did it the first time... comfort, flirting, Kino escelation... etc

You need to SOI so that she knows you aren't looking to get serious... I like to do this during the cuddling period... post sex... Or just wait until she brings it up... she may not ever bring it up, lol.

And WAY TO GO on your first SNL buddy!!

Yeah man, good job on running your game. I agree with The Doc as far as making her your f-buddy.

Has she contact you at all since you had sex? Hopefully she enjoyed the sex enough to want more too. If not, you may be out of luck anyway. If she did, she should be down for more soon. Remember, the more she loves the sex with you, the more she will be willing to put out for you.

So, just give her a call and make some plans with her.

Jesus christ LA tripp you at over a 1000 posts! shit dude. lol.

Alright, sounds good thanks for the advise doc, and LA tripp.

One other thing, how long is to late to call her? Because Im going to be busy till next week and I'm thinking perhaps she would already put me in the discarded pile.

I was pretty selfish in bed, lol. I wouldn't be surprised if she wasn't that into it. But i guess ill never know until i call.

What is it with me and smiles today.

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"Responsibility for our lives is something we never lose but which we often deny... You can blame whomever you wish, but you’re the one who must experience (or endure) the results." -Steve Pavlina (http://www.stevepavlina.com)

You go ahead and give her a call, basically to see what her response is. You don't want to let her get cold to you, if she hasn't already. Just shoot the shit for a minute if nothing else. What's preferrable though is if you can "remind" her of something about you that she liked or enjoyed or made her laugh. Keep yourself fresh in her mind.

Selfish in bed? Uh oh. Well, see what happens.

Well you said it was MM... so I would be to worried even if the sex wasn't that great for her. MM works by making her feel pair-bonded and wanting to breed with you on an instinctual level... Not that it doesn't help if the sex is fantastic... but I doubt that would hurt you much.

Also I'd make sure to call her soon and let her know that you've been very busy but wish to see her again... otherwise she may think it was a one night stand... Or may develop buyers remorse.

Fantastic insight. that makes it so clear to me. Lets see, its been.... 5 days. hmmm. Ill call her tonight. Thanks guys.

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Just an update, hopfully this is helpful for others aswell...

I tried calling, there was an odd answer and immediate hang-up. So I thought to myself, "this is not a good sign." But she didn't have my number so there is no way she could associate my number to me, so i decided to proceed with a text message instead.

"hey its [raykast], whats going on?" - or something lame like that (I deleted the messages later and now I realize I'm an idiot)

She respond with something like she is just hanging out at home.

So following the brilliant quote of L.A. Tripp


I told her about a school project I was doing, its a mock commercial. It's for a cigarette that cleans and whitens your teeth as you smoke it. I'm thinking about calling it Creastements. Lol. She complimented me on how funny and creative the idea was. Score.

After that everything fell into place. She asked for my email so she can send me an invite to her friends art show. I got the email today but I had to decline cause my weekend is booked.

Okay heres the thing about emailing and online communication. I suck at this shit. In person, I do a pretty good job of coming off as a high value guy. For some reason, when I am writing to girls online that have some interest in me I get in this anxious, overly analytical mode and what come out on screen turns into AFC gibberish. So this time it tried to do something different to try and get the right FRAME going in what I'm writing. My strategy (and i admit this is a horrible, god-awful strategy but its the only crutch I could think of), was to visualize the recipient not being a chick that I want to mold into a fuck buddy, but simply an AFC friend of mine. I figure that at the very leased I will give the impression of higher value and I wont come off as needy or too interested like i usually do. Especially since I have to decline a request to go out (which it the goal of a booty call, I dont want to HAVE to go out with her to get her in my bed).

Does anyone have better ways of going about online communication?

Any way I sent an email
I know, all the stressing over such a simple email. Seriously, though, I probably would have fucked it up.

She reply's with I think I am set. Got an excuse to get her over my place in the early week. Ill fuck her again for sure. But I am still worried about managing this. My goal is this, I don't want to have to take her out places to fuck her. I want this stricly to be a booty call situation and I want to get good enough to be able to repeat this and have a whole bullpen going.

High hope and big dreams

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