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| D Diesel | PostPosted: Thu Sep 29, 2011 5:06 am | |
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Posts: 7 | | From what you have written it looks like you have two issues that are coming up.
The first is what I call the "sandtrap" stage. Almost every LTR faces this from around the 6th month to a year in. It's where the "newness" and excitement of the relationship starts to wear off and all those little nitpick things that you have ignored up until now come out full blown. All those annoying traits about her (or you) are no longer cute and fun and lead to blow ups and arguments. That could be the reason you are arguing more, she is feeling insecure, and you are feeling frustrated. Honestly, I have never discovered, or read about a cure other than to plow through it. If you want to stay in this relationship keep plowing through this phase until things get better. Or you get so fed up you end the relationship. It can be a great insight into who she REALLY is.
The second issue is the jealousy, which could just be a symptom of the first. The easiest cure is simply to portray your lack of tolerance. If you haven't said or done something to hinder this tactic already, simply convey to her that you don't have the time, or patience for her jealousy. You're not the last guy and should NEVER be treated as if you were. This can be done by simply explaining that you experienced a jealous relationship in your past, and will no longer tolerate it. If she asks you if you are cheating, don't get upset... freeze her out. Stop paying attention, be cold. Later, reaffirm her of your relationship and honesty with some other demonstration and get on with YOUR life. Repeat as necessary until she either understands this or you decide it will never end and break things off.
This could be just one of many shit tests of the Sandtrap stage and how you deal with it now, will set the tone for the future to come. Good luck
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| walium | PostPosted: Thu Sep 29, 2011 7:37 am | |
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Posts: 6 | | see some good love story book like in this time love is like is biggest book for your love terms many expert write his article on this book when you read this book i hope you will guide any girl any time and any where.
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