Right, long and short of it is i went out last night gaming, picked up this absolute stunner, k-closed and number closed her, left it with her basically begging me to message me the next day (today) so i left it fairly late in the day to message her, it was going well, a fair few messages exchanged, making sure i was directing conversation towards her asking more questions and keeping the chat alive, it then got to this point:

ME: Hey, so last night was fun! Fancy going host tomorrow (host being a bar/club in my town)
HB: I doubt i could any alcohol as i still feel ill
ME: WOW! its a monday, lets not drink, just get some food?
HB: Erm ill see how i feel tomoroz!
ME: sounds good!

Is she blowing me off? If so whats the best way to go from here, i was thinking about maybe ringing her around lunch time and being kinda direct? And if she flakes then suggest another activity and day to go?

I think if instead of saying 'Fancy going to...' you could have said something along the lines of 'Me and a couple of friends are going to .... you should come along' That way it sounds less like a date and more of a meet up/hang out situation and that your not just begging for her to meet you somewhere.

my advice,
if you sense that she is excited to get your text and really really likes you, go direct, "lets meet at blah blah blah", "lets do blah blah at blah blah day and time"
and if u sense that she is nt dat excited and is a bit hesitent to talk to u, go indirect, "me and my friends blah blah", "m going to blah blah club, u should cum with ur frndz, its great they would love it"
i hope that helps

cheers guys, i text her mid day ish yesterday and no reply till nearly 10pm, im getting mixed messages from her at the moment, cant work out what way to go with it really..... whats a good activity to go do with my friends and her?

cheers guys, i text her mid day ish yesterday and no reply till nearly 10pm, im getting mixed messages from her at the moment, cant work out what way to go with it really..... whats a good activity to go do with my friends and her?

chose any activity that u like the most. Options are endless. And if u didnt qualify her yet, do a bit of qualification and invite her under a qualification frame

im guessin the best way is to call her instead of text?

if she is comfortable enough to pick up the call, go far it. And also have some fun conversation material ready b4 u call