Ok, I'm completely new to this. I've always been nervous approaching girls but I'm over that now. I keep thinking about kino, and saw thumb wrestling, haha. I thought, what could be a great way to do that?

Well, how does this sound?

after i start and she starts flirting/ seems interested:
- me: i'm actually going to college to be a professional thumb wrestler
- her: oh yeah?
- me: yeah. want a shot at the title?
- her: haha, alright
* right before thumb war
- me: how about we make a deal. if i win, you have to give me a hug. choose what you want me to do if i lose.
- her: alright, if you lose blah blah blah
* thumb war ensues
~ if i win, i get hug
~ if i lose, i do what she said (1st, try not to lose. if you do, ask for a rematch in the future)
* before leaving, ask for number

if you want, change hug to kiss or something else. if she doesn't agree on a kiss, then you could just say, "alright, what about a hug?"

(in other words, you get her number, you had plenty of kino, and maybe even a k close if done right. if not then a hug. sounds good... right?)

i thought about saying, "if i lose then i do (something here)" but i thought not giving her the option would come off weird. this way with her getting the option, she gets to have some fun at it.

btw, if the girl is really into you, i'm thinking she may actually let you win so she can hug/ kiss you? right?


Again, I'm totally new. I wish I started in the summer and just went to the boardwalk/ beach and chilled. Now I'm going to have to go my college (community college......), a friends college and go to a party there (best thing to do imo), a mall (sounds like a bad place to me actually, but i'm willing to try it), and anywhere else really


btw, I'm 18, so going to a bar is out, and i'm not a club type person (i went once, it was alright. too slutty for my taste - danced with a girl at end of night, went to the bathroom and made out, felt each other up (since that was actually my first time making out, i was scared of it to go farther then that, i was 16 at the time, and i did not get that girls number when i could have, but i didn't want to see her again especially since i was 16 and couldn't drive and actually had to drive 30 mins. just to get to that club))