Here is what happened yesterday. I was expecting to get laid for the girl has shown a lot of interest online and had come from Baltimore to DC just to meet me. But it did not happen and I had to satisfy myself with a hand job after she left ! Now I need some scathing criticism to figure out what went wrong.

I found this African American girl who is s 6.0 through OKCupid a week back and set up a date yesterday. She seemed way into me right from the beginning. I had one chat via text and another one via facebook, after I told her to add me on FB as she had run out of her text pack for the month. My game is still very weak and hence the night before going out on the date I read through the four books of sixty and decided to act accordingly.

I went for a hug right at the moment when we met (I was thinking of escalating right from the moment go) and then went to a starbucks. there was no place to sit and we decided to sit outside and chatted for a while. we were mostly discussing random things (nothing sexual here). after that i took her to a walk along the Potomac in the evening. now this girl freaks out quite a lot when she saw the rats running around the waterfront park. As per my understanding of the game I took her hand and started caressing it. The did not object to anything like sniffing her hair, holding her by the waist etc etc but was not reciprocating as well. I could not figure out what was going through her mind at all but it seemed like she did not mind it. When we went for dinner I started talking very less and started giving her one liners while giving her the fuck you eyes and she was going like blah blah blah.. I did not mind listening for she was not talking non sense. when the bill came, the waiter dropped it i front of me. now the girl asks "are we splitting it ?" i said we could definitely do that. then this girl says that i am not going to stop you if you are going to pay for it. i did not say anything and just paid for it.

After that we headed to my home on the pretext of having a drink and we found two old guys who live in my house sipping beer and watching some football game. immediately i took her to my room and fixed two drinks of drambuie. she did not want to drink much for she had to drive back to baltimore from washington dc. I have only one chair in my room and she was sitting on it. so i told her to stand up and after i sat down on it i told her to sit down on my lap which she did without any objection.

now i started playing some Pink Floyd songs onto my computer and started rubbing her thighs and legs while checking cricinfo.com (a site on cricket). She was going blah blah blah like how many people in the world play cricket and blah blah blah.. I knew that the game was on. I was trying to keep silent and giving one word answers most of the time. once she told me not to do that as she had not shaved her legs recently.. my reply was that i don't mind as long as the hair had not outgrown like that of a gorilla !! she was not just giggling and all and i kept working my hands upwards. i was kissing and licking her neck and she was asking me if i am a vampire and all. i was gently saying no and telling her to sip her drink.. she drank only half of it and said that she could not drink any more which obviously was a lie. after then when i started working my hands towards her pussy, she started asking why i was touching her. i said that i like her dress and i am touching that. she was arguing that i was touching her more than the dress... she told me not to go any further than that and said that she should probably go home for she has to drive a long distance and has a dog to feed and blah blah blah.. when i tried to kiss her she was giving me pecks on my lips and then pulling away. i feel she wanted to do it abut it was her ASD that did not let her do it. she was giving excuses like it was only the first time we met and then I said that its our third date counting the text and FB dates. Maybe I was reasoning with her a little too much, when I look back. she got up leave and i was acting disinterested. while rubbing her thighs. When she got up to leave i pushed her to the wall and started licking her neck vigorously. I could feel her heart pumping hard and that she was getting horny like hell. But when Ii tried to put my hand inside her panties she walked towards the door. At this point I figured out that maybe its not going to happen and I walked her to her car. to show that i care for her I told her to send me a text once she reaches Baltimore which she did. Anyway, I texted her this evening but she hasn't replied. I am not sure if the is offended or just that she didnt feel good about it. I don't care anyway for my only intention was to get laid which did not happen. But given a chance I will see her again and try to fuck her. But first I need to figure out what went wrong.

Any kind of feedback will be appreciated. Thanks.

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HB 6.0= low self esteem and doesn't want to play easy
African american girl=more ASD
Also sounds like you were too aggresive and/or didn't properly escalate