Yeah, its nice to know that i am not the only person like that. Well, i had a talk with her... didn't really help. So here is my plan. I am gonna leave the forum alone for a few months. Ill prob start that at the end of this week. After that, i am just gonna work on making myself better. so yeah...lol.

So you're caving for her? You're gonna hope that turning AFC will win her back?

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~ Rye

I can't believe you have this site saved to your computer
You're supposed to hide this type of stuff from women like you hide your playboys under your mattress

You're using your real name too I'm sorry but this situation is too funny

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Thorsten! My man... the girl invaded your privacy... and is holding it against you? Fuck her she's a crazy person! It's sounds like you have a little case of one-itis going... and we all know what to do about that! So after you get your 12 you'll be able to have her back... that is if you still want it

Rye Lee- no, i am not caving. I am actually gonna do that thing with Doc. I had planned to do all that inner stuff, but then just change my name. lol. Skip that though, i don't even care anymore. I have no intention to turn afc. I do need to actually learn something about the community. Only thing i have read is the game.

Claire- I am not using my real name. This name is german, and my real name is a far stretch from being german. I am not that stupid. It was in my bookmarks, in a sub folder. Her reading it didn't really help or hurt me. She only found the post because of the title.

Since she may or may not try to join the site, i am not gonna go into details on things.

Without going into a long post, i agree with just about every post.

1) She INVADED YOUR privacy

2) you did NOTHING wrong

From the sound of it you treated her well. What i would do is explain to her that you use the forums as an outlet to gain a better understanding of social interaction between you and anyone, of any gender. Explain to her that this community is very open, yet respectful, and that you were just trying to make sure that you did the socially apropriate thing.

Explain to her that if you did not care about her you wouldnt have spent time with her, nor spend the time to explain yourself. Then explain that some things are private, and she crossed that line. Tell her that there are some things you do not ask her or pry into because it is her buisness not yours. She should have this same respect for you.

3) DO NOT AUTO LOGIN IF THIS SITE IS IN YOUR FAVORITES!!!!

Hope this helps.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."

Hey man, i feel for you too.

Guys, the chicks do this stuff all the time too. The girls have their own communities online. My X use to post lots of questions about our relationship online, maybe this girl does that too?

I could see if she found you posted somthing like "I just want to F Close this chick!" but you didnt, you were being respectful.

FYI: This is one of the reasons I ALWAYS lock my computer and never, ever let anyone touch it other than me. (Its a Habit that develpoed from me being in the IT industry...and a good habit to have). If they ask why they cant touch your computer you tell them you have files and things that are very important and if they got screwed up by a virus or somthing as a result of you(girl) then you wouldnt want us to fight over it.

very nice Ka... perfectly said

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"I swear to tell you the whole truth, nothing but the blunt truth, so help your ego" i only sugarcoat things for women

My favorite commercial ever http://youtube.com/watch?v=TpxKYkcFRWk

If you have a mac you can create an account specifically for visitors if they want to use your computer. I always do this when a chick wants to play around on my Mac, lock my account and log in the visitor which has none of my folders, links, Access to any programs I don't want them to use. I tried doing this same thing on a PC but it was much harder, not user-friendly... not sure how it is now with XP.

Like someone posted here before, women cannot be upset over the material seen here. I see far worst questions and answers in Cosmo and the like, hell women have had support from other women on every " Dear Gabby" type post in newspapers for years. Why is it such a crime for us to come together and try to better ourselves and for all intended purposes provide a excitement and entertainment for ourselves and those we are attracted to?

I had a GF once see my PC unlocked with all my porn links and downloads, when she asked about it I just asked her if she wanted to watch some of the stuff... and she did
You just have to know how to play that shit off and let it roll off your back. You are a man and need not make excuses for your desires.

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She's probably watching your every move on this forum now lol
actually you might want to delete this entire altogether

just a thought

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Heh, I was just thinking that... My current GF knows all about this site btw, she thinks its weird but doesn't care that I write here.

Honesty has always kept me from this kind of drama. Other visitors though I keep away.

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