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well I mean I have an interesting personality, I have a lot of real ambitions. I am very intelligent, I have a lot of friends. I go out often, etc...
I am still somewhat timid/shy around girls though but that should go away soon
thank god for my looks though, without it I would never be able to get girls attracted to me.
I'm no psychologist, but maybe you are still holding onto that insecurity
you had when you were out of shape.
What I think you're really addressing here is an inner game problem.
You seem to be proud of what you've accomplished with your physique
and the way you look (and that is good), but you need to rid yourself
of your limiting beliefs before you can truly become successful.
Consider your good looks a head start and realize you can't get
great results based solely on them.
Your car has sharp lines, is shiny and has a set of slick wheels, but does
it have the power, the handling, and the soft leather interior?
(no innuendo intended)