| Last week a new girl (HB7) started at my work. I could tell from the look she gave me when I introduced myself that she was interested or at least liked what she saw.
She was originally training with another person, but I walked over and told her "you're with me now," and stole her away so that I could be the one to "train her."
I spent that time flirting, teasing, bantering with her. And she was laughing at everything I said, even if it wasn't very funny. Several times, she walked up to me and just stared at me, smiling without saying anything.
Whenever I would neg her or tease her, she would hit me and say "oh my god! I HATE you!" while laughing.
At one point, she told me her birthday was coming up soon, and I said "so that must make you a Libra?" She said yes, and asked me what my sign was. I told her I was an Aquarius, and I said "and just so you know..." then I leaned in and whispered "...we're compatible." She laughed and said "yeah I know. In fact, Libra and Aquarius are the two most compatible of all the signs!" She brought that up a few more times throughout the night.
She started asking me a bunch of questions... where do I live, what do I do for fun, how old am I, what do I go to school for, etc. Every time she asked a question, I never gave her a real answer, I always made up something ridiculous instead. She knew I was joking, and laughed about it, and even played along.
I read somewhere that since work is a static setting, it is best to escalate slowly over the course of a few weeks or even months. She has a second job, and is working only part time with me, and it looks like I'm only going to see her maybe once per week.
So, my question is, how should I go about escalating things with her? Should I sexually escalate the conversation? Escalate with kino? Ask her if she wants to go get drinks after work, and then escalate there? All of the above? And what methods or steps should I follow?
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