Hey guys,
Wanted to tell my story on my attempted game of an escort, I would love feedback and advice on what I should do next, let me know what you think! The problem I faced with this type of game was being fine with her talking to other guys and not getting jealous, and not interfering with her 'work'...

DAY 1: So I met her through a friend, she was beautiful, when I first met her I introduced myself and made no attempt to try and game her, I pretty much automatically quit because I thought she was out of my league. Throughout the first night she dropped some big hints that she liked guys like me, at first I thought it was a coincidence but then I realized she might want to hook up. So I started talking to her and she was fucking cool, we had a lot in common and we joked that we were going to marry each other one day. My friend was hooking up with her best friend, so it made it easier, her friend was taking a shining to me and telling her how awesome I was and how we would make an awesome couple. At this point I know I could possibly have a chance, so I went into the kitchen when she was cleaning up and kissed her, it was perfect. I'm not the one to sit there and make out with a chick but I loved kissing her, she was hot, I felt like a gangster! At the end of the night we made plans to meet up and go out the next night (which was my birthday) and go out, so we kissed again and called it a night.

DAY 2: So I had this chick on my mind a lot now, I had to be careful I didn't want to come off as too eager, or make her think I was totally digging her and put her on a pedestal, so I didn't act on anything right away. We all went out as a group to a weird club (its a club where escorts go to pick up guys). Now this is the only problem I have with this girl, shes an escort. So her job is to find rich guys and use them for money, so I can't interact with her when we go out because I don't want to interfere with her work, so I just went round the club and talked to other women, I wasn't trying to game any of them I was just staying occupied while I planned my area of attack. We left the club and went to get food, this is where I started kino and shit, we had a quick kiss and got back to the house. I spent the night over and we slept on the couch together, we got hot and heavy but she didn't want to have sex, I guess she doesn't like to give it out easily she has to trust the guy and shit, I respected that so we talk for a bit and end up passing out.

DAY 3: This night I was going out with my boys, her friend wanted to tag a long with us so we picked her up and headed out. We go to an awesome club and I talk and dance with girls, again nothing serious I had my mind set on this girl, even though she wasn't with us. I talked to her friend and she informed me that the girl liked me, and that I had to be special because she didn't like guys that easily. I was smitten, we ended up dropping her friend off and going inside and we decided to pass out there, I go upstairs and pass out with her, I didn't try anything with her, I just kissed her and passed out.

**Now I know a lot of you are thinking, dude WTF?! Lame ass, but this is honestly the first time I have gamed a HB10, I was taking it slow and not making it obvious to her that I liked her and shit, it was working as intended so I continued to do what I was doing...**

DAY 4: We just went over to eat dinner with the girls and hang out, we chilled for a while then me and buddy went to head out, we had work early as fuck, me and her got really hot and heavy while making out, I knew for a fact if I had stayed that night we would of had sex, no doubt. I obviously regret leaving because the next night (last night she was in town) was supposed to be the night, it ended up being a fucking disaster.

LAST NIGHT: I had everything in place, I felt like a mathematician everything was lined up perfectly, this was supposed to be it! I get over to the house and we start to pregame, from the beginning of the night I get a bad vibe from her, she doesn't seem as interested and shes talking about going home and hanging out with dudes. So I start to get a little pissed off, and I start to drink. I ended up getting pretty drunk before we left for the club. We get there and its the normal shit with her, we separate and she goes off and talks to guys, and I have to avoid her, I start taking shots with my buddy and start talking to girls, every time I ran into her that night and she saw me talking with girls she got mad, and went and talked to other guys to try and get back at me, I was so confused. So I pull her away and go get a drink with her, I let her know shes the only one i'm interested in, and try and kiss her and she doesn't let me, she said she was 'working' and went off to talk to guys again. The difference is this night she wasn't talking to her regular old guys with money, she was talking to dudes just like me, and getting numbers. So I start getting pissed, and I do the same shit. By the end of the night we had both pissed each other off a lot, and we were both drunk as shit. On the ride back to the home she passed out, I knew shit wasn't going down, I felt at the time I had fucked up, but there was nothing I really could of done, she just wasn't interested in me anymore. We get back to the house and she goes off and passes out, I'm so pissed at this point, I obviously liked her and she played me for a fool. I ended up going home pissed off, I didn't get to say goodbye or talk to her about our future (if there was one).

The next day I send her facebook message saying it was nice meeting her, and that I look forward to seeing her again, I also said I wanted to talk to her about something and never got the chance. She texted me about what I wanted to talk about, so I told her I liked her and thought she was special. I think that was a bad idea, I didn't get a response back, and now shes back home. I feel kind of bummed out, I wanted to make this work, but I got to accept the fact that shes an escort and that she just doesn't have time for people like me in her life trying to date her. What do you guys think about this whole thing? Did I do a decent job? What would you of done different? And where should I go from here? Should I call it quits? Or keep trying?

Thanks for reading, your advice and feedback is greatly appreciated

Complicated stuff... the mindset of "professional" girls is very complicated I would say. I'm still in contact with a girl I was good friends with who worked as a stripper for a couple of years and so I learned a little about that, but she and her friends from "work" are really hard to understand, many but not all with childhood defects or some sort of personality disorder. Difficult to evaluate their actions using standard logic, IMO.

Maybe the last night was one giant shit test to figure out whether you accept her and her lifestyle of meeting other men. The fact that she got drunk with you would indicate that, as these girls usually don't drink during "work", and as getting drunk togehter is a deep way of mirroring each other and showing sympathy and trust (that's one reason why we guys like to do it together) Maybe not... i would not dare to comment.

In any case, the point where you blew it might be by thanking her for the "nice meeting" (bullshit, DLV) via Facebook (wrong jerkish medium to discuss real issues). Plus you accepted her question-answer game with HER aksing the questions after SHE screwed up. IMO, a phone call where you don't talk much, don't insult, but just ask firmly what THAT shit was meant to be and let HER do the explaining would have been appropriate. Either she's out, or she accepts this frame and you find a way to work it out.

IMO it's not too late to do that. Re-frame the Facebook shit in way that you really care for here, but that you now call 'cuz that's definitely not the way it will work.

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The facebook thing was a mistake. You may be able to reframe it but don't spend too long when you do it, best to get her mind off it.

About your situation. She was jealous. That's a really good thing. You were jealous. That probably messed you up a little bit.

The reason I think LAST NIGHT (whenever that was) didn't work out for you, was for the same reason you thought it would succeed. You had everything planned out. Don't do that! It's so much better to focus on what's going on at that moment than to try to fit a dynamic relationship to some master plan. Think about when you first kissed her. You didn't know what was about to happen, but you went for it anyway, focusing completely on that situation. That's the feeling you want when you talk to her.

I'm sure she's still interested, it seems like you've been doing well so far. Next time you go see her, focus on her and have some sympathy. Understand where she's coming from, she wants a man that can handle himself really well, and especially handle her drama.

What you needed to do last night was handle her initial bad vibes as a shit test. "Alright, you're not allowed to rain on my parade. Everybody, Her Name and I are drinking buddies tonight!" and push good vibes everywhere.

That said, all is not lost. The best way to develop a strategy on the fly (which you'll need to get this girl) is to be focused on the situation at hand. You got pretty far, I think you can recover from here.

Thank you for your responses! I will keep your advice in mind, I haven't talked to her since the whole facebook thing. I think i'll call her this weekend and have a casual conversation with her, see what comes of it, I'm not gonna push the whole "I like you thing anymore..." I just want to keep it casual and get her to put herself out there this time if she chooses too...

why you soo oneitis bro??? there are other women better looking with self respecting jobs out there

Oh I'm not oneitis...I just want to keep this option open for the future.

The fact that you can't get off of her and move on seems pretty oneitis no offense but its similar to those "How can i get my ex girlfriend back" posts that I see on these forums.

You're going for comfort/casualness again (like with that Facebook thing), although you were pissed and disappointed. Incongruency, IMO. When pissed, act pissed, but be open for a solution. Sort it out this way, not by swallowing anger. If the whole thing blows up, it's better now than later. You don't want to be in any kind of inbalanced relationship.
Just my 2C

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Agreed. Don't try the comfort call, the situation is too strange, she may not even pick up. Either be upfront about the issue, or invite her out with friends like nothing happened.