yeah, i think we're on the same page. we just word things different.

I find that hard to believe.

Why would i come on here and help then?! what the hell. name a solid example of showing to much interest and i'll prove to you why you're wrong.

From one of your posts:
I am assuming you are sending the five messages within a short amount of time (ie under a month), not spread out over months. If I am wrong on this please correct me. But I would love to prove me wrong that you can't show to much interest, because all the girls I have talked to said otherwise when it comes to online game.

@madcherrybomber: What I guess I am not getting is how is showing too much interest isn't a bad thing. Because when you show too much interest in a girl in real life, what tends to happen? She thinks you are a stalker or a creep etc. Now how does that exactly get flip online when girls in general have to be more protective and what have you when it comes to online. The only way I see this working is on desperate girls, who latch on to the first guy that shows them interest.

what i'm trying to say is that too much interest isn't the problem. it's other things (that you wouldn't do f you didn't have interest, but it's not the interest itself that drives them away) i swear on my life the more interested you are in a girl the more she'll be attracted to you as long as you have the confidence to go along with it and the strength to respect her boundaries and the experience to have good social skills and to be good at arranging a way to get together.

i mean there is no mutual "power" you should both feel powerful. she get's a rush of feminine energy, you get a rush of masculine energy. you feel good because you feel like you can make her feel good. she feels good because she's with a man that has the confidence to think he can make her feel good that wants her.

with the online thing. whenever i notice she viewed my profile, i'll send it right then if i can. even if it's within ten minutes of the first message. that scenario was within a couple days.

The way i see it it she thinks "oh he's not concerned about looking creepy, he must know what he's doing" what's the biggest sign a guys a creep? he looks concerned about looking creepy. what's the biggest sign somebody's a big fat loser? they act concerned that you'll just think they're a big fat loser.

Thats the thing a girl can't see/detect/etc confidence online and things are open to interpretation. Which is part of why I think showing too much interest is a bad thing.
What does power and making her feel good have to do with anything?
That's a bit different as I sometimes do that as well. But I also don't consider that showing too much interest either. Sending a girl 5 messages within a week time is.
Thats the thing girls can't see that. They go by your actions and how they read your message.

okay, so do you have a question? this is going no where. give me as many examples as you can think of of how you can show too much interest online, even in real life. i'll explain what is unattractive about them or why they are not unattractive at all, and explain how it has nothing to do with interest. plus yes there are subtleties in how you word your message so it's not exactly %100 a bias interpretation by the girl.