how often should a guy talk to a girl hes closed, or wants a relationship with in rder t keep her thinking about him?

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I think that depends on the girl. You should be mirroring her interest level, or a 2:1 ratio. For every 2 times she calls/texts you, you should call/text her 1 time.

Don't contact her more than she contacts you, don't show more enthusiasm than she shows.

A 2:1 ratio isn't the right way when this girl is actually your GF.

If you are still dating but you want to be exclusive, don't overdo the talking and make sure she shows more interest in you than you show in her.

If you are exclusive, you should absolutely balance it, without being needy.

A relationship isn't dating. No games. No Bullshit.

Every girl i've dated has appreciated a bit of distance, no calls or txts unless she calls me first. But you have to act on this before she starts to get sick of you. Once that happens, giving her some distance can backfire quite easily

What you should keep in mind is that people are busy nowadays, and you should be too. Who has time to be calling 10 times a day anyways (not saying that's your case).

If you are exclusive, you can call her once a day. Try to vary the times in which you call her just so it doesn't become a routine. Also, make sure at the beginning, she is also calling YOU, not the other way around ALL the time.

If you are dating, and no one has discussed the whole deal about exclusivity, call her once every other day. Again, remember you are a busy person, and you have stuff to do. If she complains about the fact that you are not calling her enough, that's a good sign. If she doesn't seem to care, or makes an effort to get in touch with you, well, that's an indication of how a relationship with her might be. Also, remember that when women want something, they just go for it, so if she is not going after you, well...you can always assume/pretend she's shy lol.

Good luck

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