Style mentioned several techniques he used to make his f-closes memorable for the girls he was with, so they'd keep coming back for more. Is there any material in particular you'd recommend?

David Shade. Anything and everything David Shade. He knows what makes them love sex.

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If you want her to come back make sure you give her good sex (oral sex) women love it, make sure you take care of her needs first before you take care of yours, you know what I mean, once you done this she will come back for more and tell all her friends what a great lover you are and they will want you to, good luck.

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The MoneyMan's right. If you want to impress her in bed your simply have to be there for her more than (or at least before) you are for you. After all, you can have sex whenever you want, right? So you'll be able to get plenty of pleasure. But by being there for her before (and after) you are there for yourself, you not only pleasure her, but you show that you're sensitive enough to think of others first, which will enhance the pleasure she has.

But next time, please don't use my real name for the topic title, I thought you were talking to me

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Actually, "good" sex is MUCHHHHHH more than just oral sex. If the sex is GOOD, then the oral IS JUST A TEASER, AS IN FOREPLAY. The rest will make that look almost insignificant. Though she WILL still remember it.

Yes, material by David Shade is excellent, if you're not a natural in this area.

Better than most guys do..but still not 100% right. As Shade correctly notes, women are sexually submissive, and want to be TAKEN. You CAN please her first...but you must make it clear that you do so only because it turns you on...not because you want to please her. If she knows you are trying to please her just for her....then you are not in the lead. Staying in the lead and always being focused on 'yourself' will turn her on even more. Maintain this paradigm.

Exactly. You want to make her get off, because it gets YOU off, not because you just want to make her happy. It will turn her on much more that she's turning you on that much and take her how you want.

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I've heard more than one study that says that women prefer oral sex over intercourse.

Also it's nigh impossible to give a woman an orgasm through intercourse, as very few women are that sensitive. The best way to give a woman an orgasm is through oral.

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If my post made me appear homosexual, I want you all to know that prior to sitting down at my computer I slammed 15 shots of whiskey, went balls-deep into my woman, and recited Clint Eastwood lines for 20 minutes.

While some studies do say that, I personally don't agree with those studies. If a guy knows what he's doing, I mean REALLY knows what he's doing, the oral part is merely foreplay. GREAT foreplay mind you, but still foreplay.

And, it IS true that a lot of women either haven't orgasmed through vaginal sex or have trouble doing that. But, I also believe that those numbers are probably slightly skewed, and it's not MOST women that haven't had that experience.

Although, considering how some guys are in bed . . . maybe those numbers are actually true . . . in which case the girl just needs to find the right guy.

Honestly, it's just as Starbuck posted on another thread. Women have tons of nerve endings right around there vagina. Not all the way inside, but where you can easily stimulate her with your fingers. So, yes, they are sensitive, and a lot of women can even get themselves to orgasm even when a guy can't. So, that shows they are sensitive. Personally, I've never had a problem with getting a woman to orgasm.

it is possible though. I heard about 87 % of the times a woman has sexual intercourse she doesnt get an orgasm
so it is possible, i think a big dick has also got something to do with it.

You think a big dick has something to do with her HAVING an orgasm? Or NOT having an orgasm?

Another vote for David Shade. His stuff is right on the money.

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It doesn't matter about size, unless you are monstrously big, or small, which both present problems.

It is true that about 70% of women don't ever have a vaginal orgasm during intercourse, but that is because most men are terrible lovers. This isn't a problem to blaim on women, this is something that you need to just learn how to make them feel good. If you have no knowledge of mechanics and your car is broken, do you yell at the car for being too complex (well maybe if you're not very bright), or do you either learn how to fix it by looking up information and practicing, or take it to a mechanic? Personally with my car, I'm taking it to a mechanic for most problems, because although I can probably fix it, its not something I'm overly interested in. With sex on the other hand, taking your girl to the mechanic is basically brining her over to my house. Learn how to make her feel good yourself, or she's gonna go elsewhere.

Top-ster, it't not "nigh impossible" and most women are perfectly sensitive enough. Again, its just men not knowing how to stimulate their women properly. Women LOVE to get FUCKED, not just get oral. Sure, getting her off orally is great, make sure you do that too, but make sure you can fuck her well also.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Where can I read David Shade stuff about sex? Google returns a site for purchasing his ebook.