hey guys, managed to score a "date" with a HB9 going rockclimbing at an indoor gym, any tips/ideas on how i can build attraction and comfort in such an environment would be most welcome.

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I love climbing, my goal is to actually climb Mt Everest in the next 5-6 years. Im just trying to figure out how im gonna raise the $100,000 needed to accomplish this. Anyways, you can build attraction by doing the same thing you can do anywhere else. Playfully make fun of her climbing technique, make fun of her, make fun of yourself. Play the point game with her. If she climbs and slips or misses a peg, tell her she lost a point. A few more and she no longer qualifies to hang out with you.

A lot of guys misunderstand the power of VLVs (verbalizations of lower value). This has alpha male written all over it. A guy who is comfortable enough with himself to make fun of himself in a PLAYFUL WAY, is perceived as a confident alpha male. Don't misunderstand this with a DLV. Don't tell the girl you can't get a date, or you haven't had sex in two years, or you blew your load before you went out because you didn't want her to catch you with a hard on. Here is an example:

PUA: (just missed the peg)
Girl: You are such a clutz!!!

PUA: (Smirk, sincere chuckle) My climbing skills are right up there with your insults. I don't remember telling you I liked 5th grade jokes... grow up, weirdo... (you can throw in a wink here if you'd like).

If you place a VLV with a neg as I did here, then you should be just fine. But if you are like me and quickly forget games and other attraction building gambits, then remember that being cocky-funny is a sure way to get her mind wandering... in your favor of course.

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If you really suck at rock climbing---and most people are, because it's very intense physically---tell her you'll let her get to the top first because you don't want her checking out your ass on the way up.

Afterwards, you're both gonna be hot and sweaty. I think direct game would work best. Did this in highschool a few times, worked wonders considering I was a nervous wreck around HBs

Yeah, don't let her belay...

Old climber here too..

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Chicks are so hot in ambulances.

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Thanks bilbil85, nice post. Yeah i have been thinking of a few lines to do with checking out her ass while im belaying too.
What kinda negs should i use, maybe something to do with the harness exposing her well hidden chubbyness (she isn't chubby at all) but some girls can have a hang up with this, so not sure if i should use fat as a neg, even if she is not.

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"My father always said remember, where ever there is a georgeous girl, there is a guy sick of shagging her" Alfie

Absolutely not..

Neg her about her age, and her rock climbing ability..

Use the famous Leonardo DiCaprio quote from the movie Titanic, after watching her climb a little:

"You sort of seem like an indoor girl to me.."

After your climbing date, take her hiking somewhere.. Remember to pack the quilt.

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Almax, I agree with Starbuck 100000% on this one. Before you even talk to this girl again, you need to go and look up the definition of a neg. What you were proposing is an insult worthy of a slap from this girl. I don't know if you have read posts on compliments. But we are always saying never compliment the girl directly on her physical appearance, well the same goes for negs... or insults in this case.

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yeah right, i thought as much, but was just checking, so neg personality, not appearance. So in that case, should i compliment her ass while she is climbing, maybe disguise it and say im trying to put her off her climbing? maybe when she is at my head height should i ask "pwhoar did you just fart? lol

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"My father always said remember, where ever there is a georgeous girl, there is a guy sick of shagging her" Alfie

Don't neg her body parts..

You want her to want to spread her legs, not hide them from you. Be positive when talking about her body, or its parts. Or you'll make her self conscious and less likely to let you see more of it.

And don't talk about farting unless you want to appear to be 13 years old..

Look man, you're making this more complicated than it has to be.

You don't want to come off as a desperate, immature asshole that has no earthly idea how to treat a woman..

Negs are helpful with certain girls and in certain situations. Like hot chicks, with a bitch shield in a bar, school, etc.. Or when you first meet a stand offish girl to get her to invest in the initial interaction.

You've already got the chick going out with you. Don't blow it by misunderstanding the material presented here.

Time to turn the heat up on her.. Treat her well during this date, and take care of her. This is a big shit test for you. You need to make her comfortable, build rapport, trust, etc.. Then tell her you want to take her hiking, etc.. next time. You know, some place private where you can get better acquainted (you can tell her this if she's really into you).

You sound young, so I suspect she is too.. Expect there to be some resistance on her part. Don't sweat it, you're day will come, if you don't screw everything up in the meantime.

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ya the fart thing, dont.
I have tried some dates that are kinda like this, not quite climbing, but other stuff that is fun to with friends, but I have found that a lot of them dont make good dates. now i have never tried climbing, it seems like it could have a lot of good possibilities, but i have made a habbit of not doing dates that involve anything physically active. no one is attractive when they are hot and sweaty and smell like b.o. But really, thats just me, if it works for you, more power to ya!

good luck,

PB

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Climbing's an inherently dangerous activity.. And help can be a long way away.

You shouldn't take a girl climbing, or in potentially dangerous circumstances, especially if you or her lack experience.

An exception would be, like the topic starter points out an indoor climbing gym.

Just remember you're responsible for the young lady, as well as yourself. If she gets hurt, or worse you're going to have to live with it for along time.

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^agree with that. i'm a climber myself. if you and/or her go climbing for the first time you'll need an instructor (call the gym a few days before your date!). and he (she if you're lucky) is an instant obstacle. you might have a wing who can belay, give him a call and tell him to bring a hb for himself.

but if you're like me this is no problem because you already have total social proof in the climbinggym.

you should extent your date after the climbing. have a shower and go have a drink (this might be at the bar of the gym). or have dinner at your home (you cook).

both of you will be sore after the climbing, so learn (and teach her) some massage techniques.