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| Johnny rage | PostPosted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 9:33 pm | |
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Posts: 43 | | recently I've have been trying to improve my comfort building, ive never really had any problems with this in the past but i just wanted to try and improve this aspect of my game.
i know all about laying anchors in the best possible way (through visual,auditory and kinesthetic) but the only problem i'm having is in my mirroring i either end up coming onto strong with two much or i do none.
Need help on this matter!!
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| FreeLife | PostPosted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 5:06 pm | |
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Location: Denmark | | I wouldn't worry about it. Moreover I don't think you should be mirroring her - you should let her mirror you. This way you can take it as an IOI when she does it and you will not have to think about mirroring her.
You said that you did not have these problems in the past?
Perhaps you do better when you just let it flow naturally which you must likely did before. If you try to build rapport by mirroring her and you overdo it it could come of as needy on a subconscious level.
Best of luck _________________ - - > "It's better to die on your feet than to live on your knees"
hollywoodinpa on The Transition to Natural Game:
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| L.A. Tripp | PostPosted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 6:44 pm | |
| | | Well, actually, mirroring her in the beginning is a good thing, however, the point about you having NOT had trouble with this in the past is right. If you haven't had trouble with it, then don't mess with it at this point. If there's some reason you ARE having trouble with it now, then yes, we need to figure out why. But, if you normally don't have trouble with this area, then work on an area that you are weak.
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