Hello Everyone,

I been friends with this HB10 for like 20 years since childhood, and in the past 2 years we been good friends but she was married and so was I but now we are single, she has been a real good friend, she tells me her problems with ex and everything and we get along great, she sends me texts of jokes and things like that, but I'm afraid I fallen into the friend zone. I told her I'm attracted to her and she's told me she's see's me as a friend. What can I do to get out the friend zone?

Thanks in advance,

TheMoneyMan1 (Future MPUA)

Ok, I'm going to tell you what I would tell anyone who posts a thread such as this...

You've known this chick for 20 years, and she's even refused your advances with an LJBF type comment. You're not gonna want to hear this but it's time to move on, my friend. If you had known her for a very short time things might be different. However, you've known her nearly your whole life! As a wise man once told me..."Beautiful girls are a dime a dozen" There are still plenty of women out there for you to meet! So get yourself out there, meet some new people, make friends with the guys and take home the girls .

You know, this isn't an awful situation for one reason: You can use her as a pivot! Tell her she should come out with you one night so you two can meet some new people/make new friends. Having this HB10 with you will be some great social proof.

It comes down to either moving on and meeting tons of new HB's and using this girl as a positive part of your game...or you can sit at home and obsess about how to turn this around while she becomes your Oneitis. You can trust me when I tell you that once you FINALLY get to have your Oneitis, she won't be all you've built her up to be in your mind.

Good luck!

P.S. You should really check out the thread that says READ THIS FIRST because you will find the answers to many questions there.

~Muse

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So there is no way I can get out of the friend zone? What can I do?

Come on now, you two have been friends for 20 YEARS. Do you really want to possibly ruin the ENTIRE relationship if it doesn't work out?

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No offense. I'm not known to sugarcoat though . . . you were already told.

As was suggested by Muse, your BEST route in this is to make her your pivot. Do you KNOW how many HB's would LOVE to get to know you when you show up with a 10???

As long as your confident in your own self, having this 10 will literally just about give you the pick of litter so to speak.

I known her for 20 yrs but only really been friends for 2 yrs but we were both hooked up in a other relationship but now we are both single.

Hey thanks for the advise, just wanted to double check if there was a way.

One idea that I was going to do is to just stop answering her texts and calls and for get all about her, just to make her wonder what happened and maybe in the future run into her and start gaming her like if we just met, what do you think?

Personally, I DON'T think that would be a good idea. If you've known her for 20 years already, then a little abscence, and that's what it would feel like to her more than likely, probably would not make a difference. I would not ignore her attempts to talk to you. Again, I would enlist her help as a pivot.

Who knows? If you find some spectatularly hot HB and hook up with her as a result of this babe being a pivot for you, it may actually get her jealous and in turn you hook up with her. Maybe.

But, still that's not even an OPTION at this point. Just enlist her help as a pivot and keep the friendship there.

Hey thanx 4 all your help, I really appricieted, and I guess you guys are right.

The thinng that threw me off is that I went out with her about 2 weeks ago, for dancing and drinks and she paid my way in to the club and bought me drinks and she wanted to dance with me and we were preaty much doing it on the dance floor and I was kino ing her all over her body and she didn't say nothing and it looked that she was enjoying it.

We sat down after about 20 minutes of dancing and had some good conversation. After the night was over we just said bye to each other that was it, it felt kind of weird cause we were friends when we said bye, but we left it at that. Every morning when I wake up I find a text from her telling me to have a great day and she constantly texts me, we don't talk hardly at all on the phone cause she likes texting.

I think you guys are right though, I'm just gona use her as a pivot and see what happens from here on out.

If anyone has a similar experience that you were able to get out of the friend zone please post on this thread.

Thanks Guys,

TheMoneyMan1 (Future MPUA)

Hey man You're welcome, as long as you take the advice haha.

Not to burst your bubble or anything, but it sounds like she was just taking you out that night. My guy friends and I do that once in awhile. Especially if we're celebrating something. Sometimes one of us will just pay for everyone when we go out one night...just because it's cool to do something nice for people every once in awhile.

I have 3 very close girl friends that do very similar things that you talk about...IM's or texts or phone calls every day, just to tell me a joke or invite me to do things. One is a girl from my major, one is an ex-gf, and the last one is a former oneitis...

Now as for stories...I'll try to keep this short for you, as much of the story is posted about halfway through my Thread in PUALounge titled: Attention College Students! blah blah.

That oneitis i mentioned previously is a oneitis from when I started college three years ago. She just happened to be in the same general ed class as I am this quarter...so this gave me the opportunity to game her, and the fact that I've made huge strides in my game gave me the tools to do it with ease.

Anywho, we started talking and hanging out again, and I'm gaming her the whole time...but taking it slowly. She had just gotten into a relationship the first week of school. Fast forward 5-6 weeks...To keep a long story short, she insisted I come to her Halloween Party because her costume was very sexy. She told me to wear a sexy costume too, haha. I get to the party and I start talking to her. I realized I could finally have what I wanted...I could FINALLY take my oneitis of 2+ years to bed. And I thought about it, and realized I didn't even want her anymore. Like I was the cat and she was the dangling string. I finally got the string dropped into my paws and I just walked away.

You should take heed from this, I guarantee this girl you've been speaking about will end up the same way for you. If you really were able to turn it around and maybe even get a full close out of it, I'm sure you'd find she isn't quite what you imagined her to be. Move on, bud. Take her out and have her help you meet some girls! And be a good guy by helping her meet some guys...you could even screen them so you know she won't get into anything she'll regret. I'm thinking...now this is just conjecture, but if you play the obstacle one night perhaps it would give you great insight into how to disarm them! It would give you that backwards perspective that could just help you make friends with the obstacles in sets so you can take the target home... hehehe

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Hey guys thanks 4 all your advice, it really helps. I'm moving on to game other women.