I been thinking about the Mystery method, especially about the negs.
Im having a hard time thinking these will work in Scandinavia.
Ofcourse a small neg, showing that your not desperate, will work.
But a bigger neg, like telling her that she talks to much, I dont think that will work in Scandinavia.
Anyone have experience of this?

Are u from Scandinavia yourself ? Why wouldnt it work ?

I believe it is juggler who said " Evrywhere i get the same response on negging .... it might work in another country but it definately wont work here. " It could be that women in Scandinavia are completely different from all other woman around the globe ,still i seriously doubt that ...

U shouldnt be thinking, u should be trying !

As always let us know how it works out ...

Yes, Im from Sweden.

And as I said. I think a small neg, to show that your not intrested will work. But some people use big negs, thats the one im doubtfull about.

But, I will give it a fair chance.

I tend to agree with Dust on this. Most of the bigger negs are pretty useless when dealing with scandi women. However, a smart and witty minor neg can work wonders, just dont go overboard with them.
We even had a guy on a dating show here in Sweden, a "mystery method" man, and it was really funny seeing him in action. To cut a long story short, it was a disaster.

The conclusion of this, atleast according to me, is that its fine to use many of the guides but you have to adjust it to your setting/country.
After that however, its time to play the game.

"It doesn't matter what you say , is how you say it. "


If you say a Big neg like it seems you talk to much , in a great C&F with a smile I ebt that will work in all the globe , you just have to look not to look so rude , or you can also use a Re- Up like this :

It seems you talk to much , Lets enjoy the moment.

Just my 2 cents.

I totally agree with Learn the routines / methods but adjust them to your situation.

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Dudes the negs work! It's all in the delivery. I'm from finland and i don't think the girls differ that much here and there. Just last weekend i opened with "OMG! You walk like a man!", so if that isn't big enough for you, i don't know what is. She was qualifying from the get go.
And the you talk too much, can you get lost type negs i use ALL THE TIME. They work try being a bit more teasing with them

In Sweden, the girls are scared of everything and anything. While they are extremely insecure, they also have a strong bitchshield (are you talking to me, are you gonna rape me?). I have managed to overneg quite a few sets. The finnish girls take negs better.

Hey I am also from Scandinavia. If you overneg the set it will always go sour. I find that using 1-3 negs is sufficient for many danish girls. As long as you say it playfully you can get away with almost every thing. As it has already been said numerous times: the key is your delivery. It has also been said that girls in Sweden have a high bitch shield - all the more reason to false disqualify with negs and FTC's. You will make them more comfortable this way.

And one more thing: The only way to gain the calibration to know when and when not to throw a neg is by experimenting in the field. You will quickly learn how many negs it takes to attract a girl this way and you will learn not to overneg. You will also learn what negs works for you and what negs that don't.

Best of luck with the negs:)

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Hey thanks Free Life.
Yes, I believe thats the only way, I have learned loads the last week. Especially about when to go into A3. One of my problems have been that I stay in A2 for too long and never qualify her...

Cool subject, I'm from Sweden myself. I agree with the most people here, but my feeling is that the HBs in Sweden are quite random, some are really difficult and some are not.

Swedish girls do have some kind of bitchiness upon themselves, however i think the most common problem is simply as said overnegging. I pesonally neg a girl more than 5 times but most of the negs girls dont notice because of the way i say them.
I often combine a neg with a compliment, if i notice that they get offended.

I try to play it on the safe side with the negs, using too many negs is fine if they are mild but the harder negs can be hard to recover from...

I try to play it on the safe side with the negs, using too many negs is fine if they are mild but the harder negs can be hard to recover from...