A little update for those who know me, I've been going to college for 4 weeks now and things have been going great, I've had a couple lays and I'm always surrounded by women. Things have never been better.

Okay so we got our initiation on Wednesday and we were all invited for a night out on Friday. So when Friday came up I got this message on Facebook from this girl in my class. She wanted to know if I was going because we were both underage and she felt more comfortable being with me and my friends because if she got rejected I would too. This girl is an HB9 some could argue HB10, she has been going out with her boyfriend for 2.5 years!

So when we got there, we all got ID'd. So my friends got in but her and I were left outside. I offered her to come back to my place to watch a movie or something so this night wasn't a total waste of time. She agreed and we headed there. On the way there (we were busing, no one's going to drive drunk) she wasn't giving me anything. No eye contact, little kino, and she kept complaining about the weather. So I just listened and said yeah, okay once in a while. I was comfortable in the silence, but obviously she wasn't and she kept filling the silence if you know what I mean.

When we got to my place I put on the movie and put a chair in front of my couch for our feet, and then put one blanket on top of us. She then started tickling my feet with hers, and she said "Are you ticklish?", then she started tickling me on the abdomen. I started laughing cause I am ticklish (she was breaking rapport hahaha), so then I started tickling her and eventually had my arm under and around her. So we sat there and I went for the kiss.

She said, "What are you doing?", and I said, "Nothing." However, she put her head on my chest and started touching my arms, neck, ears, and hair. She was definitely into me, so I went for the kiss again, this time she just said, "We can't".

So I kissed her on the forehead, then kissed her on the nose, she said, "What are you dong?", I answered, "I'm kissing you around the mouth, I'm aloud to do that.", she said, "Yeah". It was on.

I kissed her on the cheek, then on the side of the mouth, then on the other side, and then we started making out, it was awesome. We then moved to my bed, and we were making out on my bed. She asked if she could stay over because it was 3am, I said sure.

So that's all we did that night, we made out for a while and it was pretty awesome.

Here's the thing though, I feel bad for inserting myself in a 2.5 year relationship, it's the first time I do that. Anyways that's it.

Why didn;t you have sex with her?

Hahaha.... this is my exact thought. Why didn't you fuck her??


I've made tons of girls cheat on their bfs before, if I don't know the guy I tend to not care.. because if they're like this, the bf will find out sooner or later whether it's through me or not, and they deserve to know if the girl is not loyal.

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Some people are like slinkys, not really good for anything but make you smile when you push them down the stairs.

Because I didn't have a condom. I totally forgot to buy some more I used the box I had.

it sucks you didn't close her, but hopefully you can f-close her nxt time

Hopefully there is a next time, girls with boyfriends are so fucking unpredictable.

Moral ain't your job if you don't know her BF, simple as that. I don't want to know how many SNLs had a BF and just did not tell me.

See it the other way: YOU HELP HER!
I know many girls, especially ones that had a long LTR when they were young, that really got themselves into something that was not worth it, but they struggled for YEARS to get out and sometimes even were abused by their loser BFs. For them, it is not easy to emotionally connect to rest of the world and build self esteem, especially if they have a dominating, isolating BF.

So don't give up on this case too easy, she will test you whether you are serious and strong and persistent enough to offer her a better option. Just don't appear to be needy along the way.

You actually help her to find out whether this relationship is still worth the effort or whether there's more interesting things in life for her. By showing her that she is sexy and interesting and adorable, you give her the confidence and power to re-think her life and relationship.

A real win-win situation :)

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Pain is temporary

Interesting thanks, because this girl is definitely someone I'd like to see more than once. So I'll try doing something with her again soon. I was thinking that I should always be indirect so she doesn't feel like she is purposefully cheating on her boyfriend. Also I will try not to look needy and just look like I want to have a good time.