Long story short, known this girl for 2 months prolly now. She likes to spend alone time with all of me and my guy friends and has kinda penetrated our group of friends since she had none cause of her recent move to the area. I was the one who number closed her and introduced her. We clash a lot but, were closer than she is with the others yet, she likes my friend whos shes hooked up with twice now. It kinda sucks because im getting one-itis but, shes always saying stuff like, I've never been able to talk to anyone like this, and It makes it hard to get over her.

Opinions? Do I game her away from the friend (opinions on how to do this are welcome too) or keep her as just a friend?

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"It's a technical term, don't worry about it."

I have a similar issue with a girl where in my school, since summer vacation she has actually opened me a few times, but i never stayed in conversation with her .
In your case it is up to you to evaluate how serious your friends relationship is, and then decide. she is probably not used to you having the right sexual undertones, so you should go kino from the start. if you do try, please post how it went.

sounds like youre already in the LJBF zone and now getting into one-itis. You need to evaluate how you got into these pitfalls and learn from it. Go out and meet other girls, learn from any mistakes you identify and sharoen your game.

The only reason I had the balls to even talk to her was because of the bits i've picked up here and from reading. I am aware that i may be in the ljbf zone and i am aware of the one-itis setting in.

I guess the both of us just opened up a lot to each other. she stills considers herself closest to me. what i dont understand.....my friends game is shit but, i guess it may be that he's really good looking. Ahhh whatever i guess i'll let this one go, shes not worth it anyway and i probably opened up TOO much to her. Its difficult when you're trying to build a relationship and not just game a chick.

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"It's a technical term, don't worry about it."

Part of the fun will be when you have another chick on your arm and she'll look at you thinking - "man I coulda had that".

ya i look forward to that day very much

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"It's a technical term, don't worry about it."

The sheer fact that she hooked up with your friend is a huge indicator that you and her are just friends. So my suggestion is that you find some way to just regulate her to the friend zone, and concentrate your goals on sexing other girls in the process. Getting caught up on one girl is definitely not the way to go. It will save you from a broken heart.

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i lust for jessica alba, but now since she is preggers. I am lusting for Nicole!!! It's New Year's Day. It was Ben Franklin who said, "Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man."

Whats wrong with you goomah!
There are a billion fuckable fish in the sea and you have the gall to post shit like that here.

Ok. Sorry, maybe a bit OTT, but listen man, PUA means you don't bother about 1 girl. See the big picture.

go sarging ! its the cure for all problems in the futer ide say u need to go kino asap with new girls and practice ur kino escelation. attraction must come before "opening up" (comfort/raport) and she must earn it by quilifying her self to you also. but dont forget that kino and also a cocky, funny attitude are improtant parts of being ljbf'ed. hope that helped you out a bit m8, shel be the one desperate for you once your game is tight

Agreed your friend beat you to the punch....however thats not his girlfriend so she's free game do what you want she'd probably do the same with you. You just have to put it out there let her know what's up......... if you know what i mean..........

Use her as a pawn... use the LJBF thing to your advantage and have her unknowingly pivot you, and pawn her to open (and close) another girl.

Then you'll know where you stand... because if she see's you as anything other then just a friend it will also build a jelousy plot, and will be very obvious... If it doesn't build a jelousy plot then keep using her as a pawn.

Honestly in this situation if you just try to pull the switcharoo an move from LJBF into hooking up in a more standard model... I'd put it at about 95% getting blown out and losing the friendship altogether... Maybe it's worth it to you... but using her as a pivot and seeing how the chips fall you'll be able to see where you stand, get another girl, and not risk the friendship if she is completely uninterested.