One day when I was walking in a mall nearby in our place, I have an eye contact with a HB. We got eye contact, she initiated it. I don't care anyways. One week after, I saw her in the church, and we got an eye contact again. Damn she's pretty and hot (I sound like a total AFC, but in fact I am. I'm just new in the game). I didn't do anything, the AFC is sill in me (anyways, I'm working on overcoming it). Then after a few minutes, in a mall, I saw her again. We have an eye contact, but she broke it. I felt a total loser after not doing anything after that. I really like to know her, and I got a feeling that we will see each other again tomorrow in the church.

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Eye contact. Awesome. Next time, keep eye contact as you walk towards her, not fast, just chillin'. Introduce yourself and get it goin my man.

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Thanks for the advice Rox. Actually I saw her again today, but still I didn't do anything. I didn't feel nervous, but there are too many people in the place (we are walking in the same path together with a lot of people), and not used in this kind of situations. I'm destructed on what would other people will think of me, if I do that stuff. Damn, I'm still an AFC. I don't know what to do. Should I just forget it,but there is someone inside me that wouldn't give up easily.

The bottom line is, I'm worried on what would other people think of me. I know that I just need to take the risk to know her, but maybe I still shy enough to execute such action.

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other people will have no idea why you come up to talk with her, did you knew her, or anything else.
Its all in your head.

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K, i had a similar situation recently. I bumped into a hb9 in three different locations we made eye contact, but in all three occasions she broke it so i thought i shouldn't open. But i saw her again a fourth time in a store full of people, but i said i'm going to approach either way cause i like her.
I said to her: "hey, i keep seeing you around. I think it's our destiny to meet."
i know it's cheesy but she giggled and we started talking from there really naturally, and in fact she asked for my number.
i don't think it's too late for you to open her and don't be shy (i know it's easier said than done), but she probably wants you to talk to her as well. i'm bashful as well sometimes, but only by approaching you can overcome it

Alpha... I answered you In he other post...but no matter this Is upping my rank...HA!

Man you gotta just go up and talk to her...forget what other people think! For all they know this could be your cousin (weird) or an old friend or babysitter. These people have no idea what's actually going on. Plus if they figure out that you just went up to a girl and talked to her because you thought she was pretty they would respect you more I know I would. The bottom line is this: if your playing poker for one hand...and there is no bet...but!...you can still win a million dollars if you play...would you still play?

Exactly!

You have nothing to lose but everything to win.

Post note: If you go up and try and act like the douchey pimp from those shitty 70s movies like "damn baby you fine" (etc.) Im all about pick up but this , to me , is acting like a tool. Just be cool man don't be afraid to be or act nervous...just as long as your the nice normal guy talking to her.

Alpha... I answered you In he other post...but no matter this Is upping my rank...HA!

Man you gotta just go up and talk to her...forget what other people think! For all they know this could be your cousin (weird) or an old friend or babysitter. These people have no idea what's actually going on. Plus if they figure out that you just went up to a girl and talked to her because you thought she was pretty they would respect you more I know I would. The bottom line is this: if your playing poker for one hand...and there is no bet...but!...you can still win a million dollars if you play...would you still play?

Exactly!

You have nothing to lose but everything to win.

Post note: If you go up and try and act like the douchey pimp from those shitty 70s movies like "damn baby you fine" (etc.) Im all about pick up but this , to me , is acting like a tool. Just be cool man don't be afraid to be or act nervous...just as long as your the nice normal guy talking to her.

Thanks crawlinkingsnake... I will just do it. I got your point. I just realize that, as long as I do it as a nice person everything will be fine. Anyways, I just recall one time when I ask this girl in the mall, everything went well. I got her number, and have a nice talk with her. I'm just annoyed with those people talking behind us, I heard they were talking like "Look at that guy taking that girl's number". Anyways, I really appreciate your advice. Thanks.

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Thanks Lelouch, you just inspired me.

Thanks Min0. Just got your point.

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