Hi guys,
I noticed an interesting response to kino: basically whenever I put my hand around a girl (on her shoulder or waist) she puts hers over mine and keeps it like that (not trying to move my hand away). This happened on the dancefloor twice last night with the same girl and has happened before with another chick when we were posing for a picture. So I got curious if this should be taken as an IOI or probably she feels uncomfortable even though she did not pull away.

Yeah it can be an IOI, remember to read signals in context, she could think your a good mate. You know what I mean

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another possibility is she's trying to make sure your hand doesn't slip into her boobies by accident. I find verbal IOIs much better to read.

BIG mistake my friend.. never never analyze more verbal language than body language.. we only use 7% of our brain for speaking words.. the other goes into body language. Someone can say something and if his body language shows otherwise, it means he's bullshitting.. never make the amateur mistake of listening to what a girl says.. it's good to analyse that too.. but the 1st important thing is body language. Verbal IOI's are not really IOI's.. if she says she likes you but her body language is showing a deffensive-aggressive attitude... what she just said can go down the toilet.. she probably wants you out of her sight.

Yeah I think it's big IOI you have there my friend..that's kino compliance which is perfect!

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trying to make sure your hand doesn't slip into her boobies, what kind of guy does that anyway?

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