if you don't have patience ... you probably don't want what you are looking for..

if you don't have patience in your relationship
if you don't have patience while doing pickup
if you don't have patience during learning
you might as well quit....and do the counter-intuitive.

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if you don't have patience or time to cook a meal ? why do you want to do it ?
if you are impatient you probably bust yourself up...looking over things - you probably add ingredients too fast.. too much or you totally forget.

if you are really patient with yourself and patient with others - relating to yourself and relating to others you will see the relationship between everything - just taking the time to observe instead of rushing...

isn't this true in relationships ? you see a problem but there isn't really is a problem ? it's just you being unable to handle the problem yourself - do you lie to yourself?

i tried to help and change someone who couldn't see he was lying to himself, instead of showing patience i tried too help too much. I didn't really accept and observed with patience , i threw in the ingredients too fast - the water wasn't even boiling....

so i forgot about cooking this whole recipe....are you a good cook ?

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You see a problem that isn't really there because you haven't cooked before and you don't trust yourself enough to believe you're doing a good job. Because of ^this, the meal will never finish the way you wanted it. The food will end up being shitty as fuck because nothing ever pleases you and you keep changing things in hopeless attempts to make it perfect.

But the truth is, the only thing that's ever going to please a cook who doesn't believe in himself is a meal that cooks and serves by itself.

Those kind of cooks shouldn't be cooks in the first place because they simply are not ready for the kitchen yet.

EDIT: Lode, did you come up with this analogy by yourself?