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ok, guys, here's my very confusing issue
I was toghether with this chick for the last 2 months, she fell hard for me and things were really great.
last week I came down with something and coudn't go into a planned trip, she stood by my side friday night, saturday she went with a chick friend to a pub and party until 4 am while I was ill. I saw no problem there.
however, things got worse with me monday and I went to emergency to check into hospital.
i know that at the time she was with a chick friend for a coffee and called her to ask her to drop to my place to have a chat before leaving to hospital. She said no promises although she was close to my place and didn't make it in time. I admit I didn't tell her why I want to see her.
while I was checking in, she called and I snapped (not in excess) , told her "I admire your punctualiy and by the way, I'm checking into emergency because i'm worse and doc can't figure wtf is wrong with me. Speak later."
yesterday she didn't call at all because she was "angry with me". I set up a meeting outside the hospital and she told me out of the blue that although she loves me this stops now because she can't be with people who snap at her (old issues, i'm sure)
another weird she gave me was this: she feels too good with me and too bad when i'm not around and because of that she can't take care of her hobbies anymore.
i said ok and i left
i'm thinking wtf? To kick a man while he's down like that , pretending you love him... Is this lack of integrity or what?
can anyone shed a little light on this, please? I really could use some input
thanks
sounds like something else came up and she is talking shit to get away
"i feel to good with u, and bad without u" bullshit no women complains about missing u too much!!! unless her friends have been going your not the same when your with him your different blah blah blah....
second as for the timing it is regardless you should never stay with someone just cause its a bad time for them, it gets worse in the long run i speak from experience because they then love you more because "you where there, u helped them through" etc etc... if the feelings aint there you get out regardless of time place situation etc...
as for the snapping at her to fucking right mate!!! u stand your ground if your pissed you are alloud to show it she isnt god, she is a person...and if it was the other way around she would have been so pissed off herself so good for you mate!!!..
hope this helps a bit, and Get well soon mate hope all clears up, ...
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