Hey guys,
I was out last night and was at a really low ebb with my confidence.
The first thing I did to overcome it was work on my body language. Stuff from the OAP mystery method training program. I stood in the mirror then just practiced talking in front of myself (that is before I went out of corse). It helped me alot, but when I approached my first two set I may have looked confident but I wasnt. I ran a few routines and went quite well negging one of them a little bit, then she's like I have a Bf, and signaled to try for her friend. I was like this isnt going to work but fuck it I gave it a go. I was in the middle of the three questions game then got cock blocked by some other dude. Start the game again haha. They wernt really that good looking anyway. A 6 maybe??
Next set I approached was with one of my friends (a dustin natural). In this set was a girl another one of my friends has been shagging. In the set I tried for her friend, had her keen, ioi's then I tried to kiss close, got the maybe but then I physically could get my body and head around to kiss her. I am not too sure what it would have looked like but after a few seconds she was like errrrrrr... After that I kind of lost the hook point and another dude that was at the table cock blocked me and walked off with the target.
At this stage I was like fuck! I was getting over it, I had no confidence. Then the whole table left besides the natural and my other friends shagging buddy. I just sat there and watched him work on her. He wasnt picking her up but the way he was talking to her he could have been. Cause we wouldnt dogg each other like that. Anyway, basically the whole time he was busting her balls. He had her change her hair from down to up. Sound like a familiar neg?? I was like fuck, the whole conversatio was practically a neg with a few reeling compliments. A while later we were in a booth and I just tried that approach hey. I was like fuck it. Ball busting time. (I usually bust everybodys balls anyway so the CF approach suits the way I normally act) I got three number closes after that. I didnt hook in, just a few pecks on the cheek and stuff, but there is a massive uni party on thrusday night and I will be in for that. I think the link between the two mindframes I had during the night were like, use her responses to see if I will get them to fuck this I have this thing in the bag, im going to do what I do and if she doesnt like it I show her I dont care and that I am the prize and she has wasted her chances with me. I think the overall mindframe I had is a mysoginstic one of like she is beneath me. Bust her balls and let her slowly qualify herself to you.

An example of the mindframe is this;

Yeah I am a big Brisbane Broncos Fan

Me story

Her- Story about a umpire

Me- Um, Rugby League has referee's.
-Your not a Broncos fan at all

Push on the shoulder

She looks at me

Me- Advancing forward What?- (I did this kind of agressive but in a playful tone. I got showed this moove by a friend who lives for fist fights and he says that if someone ever tries doing something to fight you you moove your face and body forward and go 'what?' stright away'.

Oh, I also used the 'Your loosing me line a few times' It is sick.