ok so here's a quick rundown. Ive never had a problem with confidence. i have a very "im the shit" attitude most of the time. im not shy around women nor do i have a problem talking to them. I do have a serious case of AA, but thats most likely due to what im about to explain. in the past year ive lost about 100 lbs of fat and gained about 20 lbs of muscle. i went from fat and sloppy to pretty muscular and very fit. i have also taken a new approach to my wardrobe and just about every other part of my appearance. the ladies definitely have taken notice, but the problem is that i havent. i really dont know how to explain it other than even though ive had sex with more women this summer than i did in the past three years, and even though girls are now asking ME out, i get numbers and kisses with ease, yadda yadda yadda, i still feel like i could be doing much better. its as if i dont realize that im not fat and ugly anymore until AFTER a successful night or encounter with a chick. i feel like i could step it up soooo much more if i had this outlook from the start. my experience as of late has shown me that most ladies out there are at least attracted to me on a physical level and that opens a lot of doors that i fail to see. has/is anyone else going through this? if so what should i do to shake it? p.s. sorry for the long winded post.

4 Months ago, I choose a drastic weight change, Becoming fit from rotund, but the innner game stayed fat and sloppy. Now after the realization, the weight was a ravenous mouth of self deprication, I spearheaded the issue once and for all. Locked on to the target, which to my surprise was shying away from attention well earned, I've grew into my new body! Target the primary feeling, make sure to focus and protect your flanks from emotional distraction.
Happy Sarging
-ChocolateMoose