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| thelenzel | PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 9:30 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Wed Jul 22, 2009 5:31 am Posts: 349 | | Hello all.
My girlfriend last night told me that she (and her family) were leaving the city when we got out of college (Approximately 1 year and a half) ... I know its still a long time, we've been together already for 16 months, but when she told me this, I didn't expected it.
And now, I find myself sad. Who knows if we'll even last together another year and a half, I hope so, but I'm finding trouble being happy knowing that she will leave, and while it is still a long time to be with her, I can't find comfort in knowing that when the time comes, she will leave.
I told her that we shouldn't think about it, and just enjoy the time we have left, big mistake she bursted into tears. I don't know, maybe things change in 1year and a half, but I really was starting to see her as a part of my life in the long future, and yesterday while driving home, and at my bed at night al this memories started hitting my head and I started crying when picturing my life without her.
What can I do? Besides try and spend every day we have left in the best way possible?
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| intrigued101 | PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2011 11:40 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Aug 03, 2011 7:14 pm Posts: 93 | | A lot can happen in 1.5 years. Maybe you won't still be together then. I wouldn't worry for the moment. If in a years time you are still going strong you will have to make some sacrifices to make it work. A friend of mine recently left everything behind and move to NYC to be with his girl. That's not easy but if it is the real thing then it become a sacrifice worth making.
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| Jamine | PostPosted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 1:24 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Sep 14, 2011 1:10 pm Posts: 7 | | there's always a way buddy. i'm sure you guys can talk about it. if you really want to take it to the next level, talk to her and discuss things
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| sushilsilicon | PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2011 4:59 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Sep 16, 2011 4:51 am Posts: 3 | | OK,That's Fine.
Just I'm here wanna know how to make a long-term relationship successful.
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